The Good Formula

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To: crjames100@gmail.com
Sent: Sunday, February 11, 2007 4:45:13 AM
Subject: Re: help

Thanks for the reply.

Last night I was out with the girl I like again. And I have got some more information that maybe of use to you.

We were talking alone, and as we didn't end on very good terms, we have decided to start our friendship again and forget all the bad things that happened. I also explained to her, why I was nervous around her when we dated, and she replied by saying that she didn't know I was being nervous and really enjoyed being with me.

She also said, that she thinks I am a nice guy, have a good personality and I am gorgeous (her words), and she doesn't know why she isn’t attracted to me. But she also, told me that when she first met me, she really really liked me, but said when she gets over someone, she gets over them!

There must be something I can do to trigger the attraction again?

I don't think that this girl is "the one" but I think we could have

something really amazing.

Thanks

{D}

CR Replies:

(original response modified)

I don't think it's ever a good idea to tell the girl you are nervous. I believe that being honest and respectful works in your favor… to some degree…

The act of ‘revealing your insecurities’ may successfully let her know that you are an honest guy with feelings, but it does not increase your desirability (in most cases)…

Many guys believe they can "increase desirability" by appearing vulnerable, hoping to appeal to her sense of understanding.

It doesn’t work.

I strongly believe that at this point you need t to give her some space.

…at least a week.

…or at least go a certain period of time without showing her that you're interested in her...

Some guys feel like this is ‘being fake’, but in reality it allows you to gain the skill of being in control of your emotions...

If you achieve this, you will automatically project:

• The signal of strength
• The signal of self-control

Symbols of "self-control and discipline" are soldiers, leaders and great achievers...

Symbols of "NO self-control and NO discipline" are perverts, drug addicts and losers...

That's why it wouldn't be effective to confess to woman -- in the tone of honesty -- that you are a crackhead (for example).... or confessing that you are a pervert....

Over the long run, it's best to understand, that females desire guys who are secure, confident and in control of their emotions.

So when I say let some time go by, I say that because you could be at the "critical point" - this is where nothing you say matters.

Once you have let some time has gone by, you’ll have the PERFECT OPPORTUNITY to show her that you are a guy with sexual value...

“Timing is the key to achieving anything in the universe!”

So you must let some time go by. And the ‘specific situation’ determines the amount of time.

So it's not a matter of WHAT needs to be done to "trigger attraction" it's a matter of WHEN (timing).

Here’s the Good Formula for making women go wild (without using any advanced tactics).

Good Timing + Feeling Good About Yourself

Let’s put it in perspective…

An example of Bad Timing & Feeling Good About Yourself:

[This doesn’t work.] Approaching an attractive woman after she just found out her grandfather has died, but you are feeling amazing about yourself.

An example of Good Timing & Feeling Bad About Yourself:

[This doesn’t work.] There’s an attractive woman that just asked you for the time. She’s smiling and licking her lips, but you feel so miserable about yourself you just freeze up – which is probably a good thing, because trying to engage in the playfulness of a “new interaction” with her is just going to waste her ‘tender & soft’ time. She’ll quickly ‘sniff out’ your dullness and move on to another guy.

Some guys want to ‘upload massive amounts of seduction knowledge’ into their brains, when really they should hold onto to their money and first work on Feeling Good About Being Themselves.

The guy ‘who knows a lot of skills’ but doesn’t feel good about himself, always ends up creeping women out, which results in him subtly coming off like a ‘stalker’ or a ‘pedophile’.

He always gives off the ‘creepy energy’.

But you can’t deny the fact that the “creepy stalker guy” got skills out the ass!

He knows what maps to buy.
He can tell you where to buy the best pair of binoculars.
He can climb trees.
He can secretly follow behind her car without letting other cars get in between.

But, he does not feel good about himself.

And any guy who doesn’t good about himself, is not seeing VALUE in himself – which leads to irrationally placing too much VALUE on the ‘woman’ or the ‘situation’ (i.e. getting back with her, approaching a new girl, initiating sex with his wife, etc.).

Warmly
The Miserable CR James

SuperHappySex.com

She Doesn’t Respect You

It is important to understand that there are certain behaviors and actions that tend to predictably create a bad (anti-seductive) perception of you...

In general, any time you show signs of jealousy, you are decreasing your sexual value...more so than you can ever imagine... In fact one of the quickest ways to gain respect and sexual value is doing things to get HER to see you as man that other women find desirable... (which is the complete opposite of showing her that you are insecure over some other guy)

Creating jealousy is the easiest ways to create “instant” sexual value, because women have to respond to it... (but if you don’t have the “other” sexual value rules in place it crumbles fast as time goes on.)

Making the woman jealous sounds like a mean thing to do. It’s actually not mean.
It’s actually funny when you hear people try to portray it as a mean thing to do. Hitting someone in the face with a sock filled with coins is a mean thing to do. But getting someone who doesn’t see you in a sexual context to see you in a sexual context when you have a desire to have them see you in a sexual context seems smart to me.

It should make sense because if you were selling a car by placing an ad in the paper for $7000 and no one SHOWED INTEREST for 30 days you would have to decrease the price (in which case $7000 wasn't the true value of the car...)

On the other hand, if you placed an ad, and the next day there were 200 people looking an examining your car (SHOWING INTEREST), it would be impossible to not get more than $7000 for it...

Because the perception of value has increased because “others” SHOWED INTEREST...
So one of the first things you want to examine is how often does she experience the idea that other women are SHOWING INTEREST in you...
The reality is you are valuable.

But if she doesn’t really get the picture, then she doesn’t perceive you as being valuable – in which case you can’t expect her to treat you as being valuable...
When a woman is pleasuring herself every night while thinking of the guy at work, she is doing this because he has sexual value. When she giggles in his face, every time he says something it is because he has sexual value…

When a woman perceives you as sexually valuable, she treats you as being valuable…
You already know this.

My point is making a woman jealous is effective (if she needs that signal)…
Sexual Value Super Tip: Always consider the context. For example, using a jealousy-inducing tactic to increase sexual value is only as effective as timing (whether she needs that signal at that time). Which means there are times when a jealousy tactic would work against you. Just like there are times when “acting jealous” can work for you.

But that really points to a higher problem if the woman doesn’t treat you like she values you...
A connection in a relationship is 'when both people VALUE each other'
And the intensity of the shared value, will determine how strong the connection is...
Keep that in mind...

Also be aware that how much she respects you will have to do with

(1) the things you do that create the perception that you are valued
(2) and not doing the things that cause her to decrease the perception of value

Also, there's not a such thing as the right thing to do, because you must:
Always consider the context.

For example if a woman you really care about screams in your face:
You loser! When will you become a real man!

…and you believe the 'right thing to do' is to be the bigger man and ignore her, then you may satisfy your own definition of the 'right thing to do' BUT if she has a belief about how a [valuable] man who respects himself should respond to a statement like that, then your [personal] beliefs (about the right thing to do) will not change how she processes the information from that experience...

And as a result a "perception" has been born (about you).
She will believe you are a loser (even though you may not be one). She will not see you as valuable. She will not treat you like you are valuable.

And as a result, you will be able to tell that she doesn’t respect you.
When you increase your Base Value (your “glowing” confidence) women have no choice but to respect you.

They are hypnotized to your every word because you can tell when a woman is starting to see you in a new way….

Take Care

Warmly
CR James

SuperHappySex.com – Learn to increase your sexual value using the SSP system
Confidence-Book.com – Learn to increase your base value (Get that “glowing” respect)

Subliminal T-Shirt Seduction Technique

Subliminal T-Shirt Seduction Technique

CR James

This technique is pretty simple.
All it requires is that you have the ability to get your
female partner horny (or have the patience to wait for this
to happen on its own). And you must have access to some
horny literature.

The Horny Literature Piece:

To get some 'horny literature', do a search for erotic
literature, seduction story, sexy story or anything that
features steamy sex action.
Once you have found a few things that would turn your
female partner on if she read it, you are going to cut and
paste the information into a word document (or any word
processor that will allow you to create a watermark).
[Note: A watermark is the light image that you see in the
background.]

Next, you are going to create some unique design in
photoshop (or any design software) and make that a
watermark background for your Horny Literature Piece.
Something like:

ƒÑƒnƒÔƒnƒÖƒnƒ× ƒnƒÓƒnƒÒ

Does that make sense?
Now it's time for the Subliminal Apparel Piece:
The Subliminal Apparel Piece:
Now you are going to do a search for one of those companies
that allows you put custom designs on t-shirts, hats and
mugs.

[Note: I use cafepress.com. I'm not sure if they're the
cheapest, the best or whatever. It's just the one I know
that gets the job done. If you want to do a little
research, just type in something like 'custom t-shirts' in
google.]

Once you have found a site, create your unique design,
place it on the shirt and order it immediately.
When it's all said and done, you'll have:

* Your Horny Literature Piece and:
* Your Subliminal Apparel Piece

That's pretty much it.
So the idea is that you will:
1. Get her horny (or wait for her to get horny)
2. Then you will present the 'sexy literature' while she
is in the horny state allowing the water mark (visual
anchor) to burn into her subconscious mind
3. Then in the future, you will innocently wear your 'new
T shirt' which just happens to display the same water
mark that is in Horny Literature (she'll never pick up
on it):

This allows a triggering of horniness to happen. Also, you
might want to make sure that the environment is suitable
for sex. If you have 'sex obstacles' taking place (i.e. the
kids are up, or she is feeling sleepy, etc.) then that is
going to affect your results.

The degree of effectiveness will be based on:
* The intensity of her horniness when the subliminal
image (water mark) is covertly installed. In other
words when you are getting her to read it. Keep in
mind: The Horny Literature Piece is not used to get
her horny. Remember, she already has to be horny. The
HL Piece is designed to take her to a new level, give
her Horniness some sort of life & direction, distract
her conscious mind so that the subliminal watermark is
installed.

Very Important: You are going to go through the effort of
creating a T-shirt, paying for it and having it mailed to
you. The intensity is directly related to the effectiveness
of the trigger/anchor! So showing her the horny story when
she isn't already horny is not necessarily going to
guarantee that she becomes horny in which case, your Tshirt
may just end up triggering a state of curiosity.

I say this because in general, women do not get as instantly
turned on as men.

* The number of iterations (trials, exposures, etc) to
the subliminal watermark. You'll want to repeat this
process as much as possible.

Some important notes:
It's not magic, it's simply a visual anchor. Besides my
personal success with anchors (in many applications), there
is a wealth of cases out there that prove the
effectiveness:

If you read about this type of stuff then may run across
many skeptics or people being very hesitant to validate its
effectiveness.
I read this stuff and laugh.
It works for me.

I think these people are not seeing the simplicity.
Let's really break it down!
Basically, it's just a visual anchor.

Animals and humans have been scientifically proven to
automatically respond (emotionally and psychologically) to
stimuli.

Here's what I mean:

If for 5 straight days you fed your dog while wearing a
Black T-Shirt with a Red Bone on it, what do you think
would happen if you just randomly put on that T-shirt?
The dog will unconsciously recognize that visual pattern
and expect to be fed (and as a result, it's mouth would
begin to water).

In fact, most pets recognizes the visual pattern of seeing
their owner in the 'reaching to open the cabinet' body
position and as a result their mouths will salivate.
So not only is the parts of this technique scientifically
proven, it's seen in every day life.

It's that simple.

But I'm not done: (it gets better!)
Let's use a closely related example, to really make sure
that you see the power!

In fact, I had an ex-girlfriend who insisted that we make
love to our 'special song'. Well guess what?
All I had to do was play that song and she instantly got in
'let's make love' mood.

Is this the first time you've ever heard about a woman
getting sexually turned on just by hearing a love song (or
slow jam)?

Of course not!

So as you can see, I have used very common examples. And I
do this for the purpose of allowing you to see that this is
very effective. And it's very easy to do.
Of course, it does require that you get her horny initially
(or at least wait for her to get horny on her own if such
a thing happens for you).

After that you can Install The 'Horny-Trigger' Watermark!
And it's like installing a magic button on her back, where
all you have to do is press it and she will get horny.
There's a million ways you can introduce her to the Horny
Literature once you realize that she is definitely horny.
Let's say you are about to have sex and you the two of you
are lying in the bed. You could say:

'You know what. I need a female's opinion. Bob from work found this
crazy manual with various sex scenes under his wife's pillow and he
thought she might have been pleasuring herself to these bizarre sex
scenes. I told him what's the big deal, but he's still upset.'

As you can see, using the word bizarre makes her want to
see what's inside the manual.
Also - you can see that this allows for the 'Well honey, I
don't think that one was too bizarre.' which creates the
need to keep flipping through the book (which further burns
the watermark-horny-trigger into her unconscious mind).
An example in action:

If you want to see how I did it, then go the secret shop
that I set up at http://www.cafepress.com/supersexyhuman
(Also feel free to use the T-shirt with logo that I
created, but again you can create one yourself.)
In other words, the Red lighting Bolt that you see
displayed on the shirts is also used as the watermark of
the word document that I created.

So that's an example. You can easily create a document and
T-shirt on your own.

Because of it's so easy to do, it doesn't make sense not to
be doing some sort of visual pattern as part of your
seduction routine.

[If you have SSP Magnetism (superhappysex.com) and you read MF
Density (one of the bonus reports), then you know that this is an
'Extra' MF Strand. If you haven't read it, don't worry everything
should make sense in this report.]

Personally, I don't rely completely on this as a means of
having sex with my woman. And the reason is simple, people
(especially women), don't necessarily act immediately on
their desires.

And this is actually a good thing!
Plus I believe in layers. (A multidimensional approach
instead of a one-dimensional approach)

If women always acted on their impulses, then 80% of the
male population would have been killed off. LOL.
The truth is, a woman may not rip your clothes off as soon
as she starts to feel a little horny:

They just don't act on their desires.
(So don't expect her to rape you as soon as you wear the
shirt.)

In fact, I remember being younger and being told that a
particular girl liked me. I was like: 'Really?!'
I found it hard to believe, because the girl never acted on
her desires.
Everything should make perfect sense by now...
And if that's the case, get started on your design
immediately my friend...
This is step by step simple technique.

And tons of 'laughing fun' when you see yourself actually
doing it:

Always remember that it is the build up of all sort of
signals (unconscious and conscious) that will assist in
getting her turned on with ease.

Special note: Just to give you a heads up, there is a new
experiment that I am currently working on. And that is
using 'horny stories' from top-rated erotic novels.
One of the challenges that I ran into when searching for
stories online is that most of them are user submitted. And
many of them seemed very weak.
That's when I thought about using the 'best of the best'
from proven novels.

So to keep pace with what I am actually working on, you'll
want to actually buy Horny Literature and extract the sex
scenes to use in your document.
Just search for 'best erotic novels' or 'top erotic
novels'. And then order them.

(If you are too lazy to search, don't worry my friend, I
let you use the same report I created. LOL. You'll notice
that I cleverly turned it into a 'stealthy game'.

I call it the Sex Scene Test. LOL. Basically the woman thinks
she is rating Sex Scenes that are in a short 9 page report
meanwhile these graphic scenes from top-rated novels are
running through her mind: PLUS the watermark in the
document just so happens to be the logo on a shirt that I
created.

I think this kind of stuff is pretty interesting:
But wait..
It gets better!
John Bargh is a brilliant psychologist who did an
experiment at NYU.
He arranged to have two groups of students participate
in an experiment. The students had to unscramble
approximately 10 sentences until they were grammatically
correct.

For example: [bold was woman she a] would become
[she was a bold woman]

Make sense?

After they were finished, they had to take their results
to an office down the hall to the experimenter who would
give them their next assignment...

Here's where things got incredibly interesting.
The test really wasn't about unscrambling the set of
sentences. It was really about observing how the two groups
of students would respond to certain words that were
'covertly sprinkled' in the set of sentences.
So one set included words like:

aggressively
bold
rude
disturb

And the other group had words like:

patiently
yield
polite
courteous

To measure the results they had each set of students
take their results to the experimenter in the office who
was interrupted by someone who was purposely holding up the
experimenter (and also the particular student waiting for
their next assignment)...

Bargh wanted to see how each group of students would
respond.

The results were mind blowing!
He initially predicted that there would be a slight
difference in the milliseconds range.

In fact, the group that was exposed to the 'bold' and
'aggressive' words interrupted on average about 5 minutes.
While the majority of the other group [82%] who were
exposed to the 'patiently' and 'courteous' words
never interrupted at all!

And get this: the test was predetermined to end after the
10 minute mark because Barge never expected New Yorkers to
wait the entire length. So who knows how long they would
have really waited.

Hopefully you see "another benefit" of the Subliminal TShirt
Seduction Technique and how it relates to the actual
experiment done at NYU.

When my buddy Clyde told me about this experiment, my jaw
dropped. You can read about it in the book 'Blink' (by
Malcolm Gladwell).

So with that said, once you get her to read the Sex Scene
Test, be sure to have her highlight the sentences of the
scene that she gave the highest score.

That way you will have a set of Magical Words that you can
use when needed. Plus you could uncover some things about
her sexual desires that you never knew.
It's a win-win for everyone.
Well that's it for now...

Take Care & Have fun!

http://superhappysex.com/sexscene.html
(to see an example of the document)

http://www.cafepress.com/supersexyhuman
(to see an example of the shirt)

Have fun!

Warmly
Instructor CR James

http://www.cafepress.com/supersexyhuman

http://superhappysex.com - Get her horny using the SSP
Seduction System

Peace Love And Happiness
Instructor CR James
Your Secret Weapon
SuperHappySex.com

Control Equals Power

Control Equals Power

CR James

Control Equals Power ...but in a different way If she is giving you “we just did it last night” as an excuse then either two things is happening (or both) 1. She thinks you have placed too much value on the act of sex which tends to lessen the value she places on sex...

2. She hasn't developed the craving for sex at a rate that matches your craving. Let’s focus on number 1 – which is normally the case. Solution: Do a technique or send her the message in some way that allows her to get the perception (it's all about perception) that you do not value it as much... For example: The first technique in Lust Signals (the "Techniques" report) is a great way of sending that message (if you have it). If you don't have it, then you can do anything that sends her this message in a powerful way... The key is to catch her off guard - to the point where she is almost saying to herself "I didn't know that about him -

I thought THIS, but it now seems to be THAT" and then she'll create new generalizations and beliefs based on the actions and/or words that you strategically laid out... in other words, let's say the both of you are laying in the bed about to make love and you tell her "blah blah let's do something else instead of sex" - then if she has the belief that you would never in a million years turn down sex, then this will shock her (the first step to creating new beliefs with her).

She may obsess over WHY or HOW this could have happened, but the experience itself demonstrates to her (in a way where she can reference her human memory over and over again) that her initial belief (that you are always available for sex - thus meaning you place a lot of value on sex - thus making her devalue "sex with you" as a result) no longer holds up... I remember being 22 years old when I ran across what I believe to be my first experience with a nympho (a friend with benefits in her mid 30's)... we would have sex for like 2 or 3 hours and afterwards after I was *completely* depleted (mentally, physically, psychologically, emotionally and testicularally) she would
come at me for more...

after awhile it was obvious she always wanted it.... I never experienced anything like this - at the time... But the point is: I began to devaluate sex with her... at first it was a dream come true to get it anytime I wanted with a woman who never got tired and so on... but after awhile my desire changed (dramatically) - even though the sex was incredible… A belief indirectly formed in my head – “I can get it whenever I want” which tends to lessen the desire… I now realize it was because of "supply and demand" and its effects on the value of an item... And even just recently I was experimenting with an advanced version of this dynamic...

My fiancé was hinting at a seduction book that she has been secretly writing (and to be honest, I think it's a bad idea mainly because to me the idea that she has this incredible ability to seduce is the direct result of one of my favorite seduction techniques - so I’m not sure if it will add value to the lives of women seeking this information)... Anyway, she told me while we were having sex that I can't resist her and some other playfully things... so I stopped instantly and told her I am going to teach her a lesson for making assumptions... Even though, I said this playfully, she had no choice but to be shocked (because she initially did not believe that I would ever stop in mid-"act")...

Later on that day - we ended up having sex 4 or 5 times (which was a record and on top of that she reached a horny-level I never seen before)... and this happened recently (to be honest, there were some other things that I’ll write about in the future) The point is you can always take it up a notch... but more importantly, women will not only add value to the sex once you show a calm attitude that suggests that you don't get overly excited about the idea, but it is rare for them to experience a guy that has this control... You become part of a rare (more added value) breed that she never knew existed. The guy will an amazing amount of control. (of his desires)

And also - extreme self control is associated with warriors, great achievers, men in uniforms, confidence, etc... (these are symbols of sexiness to a woman - so you should always work to maintain the energy of these symbols) Lack of control - the exact opposite is associated with bums, quitters, addicts, complainers, etc... I hope that helps... Good luck...

Warmly, Instructor CR James
Superhappysex.com
Superlustbuttons.com

The 4 Deadly Characteristics of An Unplanned Cheater

The 4 Deadly Characteristics of An Unplanned Cheater
The Secret Test: How To Predict If She Will Eventually Cheat On You
(even if she doesn’t realize it)

CR James

I’m going to get straight to the point like I promised – just do me a favor and take these 4 cheating-lover characteristics seriously, because no one is talking about them (no one)… So make sure you never forgot them because they will apply to your current, past and future female partner. (Again I’m going to be brief.) And the reason why they’re so valuable is they reveal whether a woman is likely to cheat --- even if she doesn’t realize it --- even if she is good-natured with no intention of ever cheating. But as you know many women cheat and end up regretting it. So in order words, she loves her current man, but something strange happens. Here are the 4 Deadly Characteristics that determines whether a woman will eventually cheat on you. (even if she doesn’t realize it) Let’s get to the point:

1. Cheating Lover Characteristic #1: She has very little will power – I know this may seem obvious, but many women are good natured, but in certain situations she just doesn’t have the mental strength. In other words, it’s just like a large woman who wants to lose weight. She doesn’t want to over-eat, it’s just hard for her to hold back. Basically if there is an urge, she’ll act on it –regardless of what her conscious intentions are.

And this will vary depending on her Level of Will Power. So on a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being very strong-willed) try to determine her will power level.

2. Cheating Lover Characteristic #2: She can be easily persuaded be others (gullible / naive) – At first glance, it may seem like this characteristic is the same as the first one, but it’s not. The first one has to do with a lack of self-control, and this one deals with how easily her perception can be changed by others. For example I know a woman who gets up at 5:00 AM in the morning and jogs for 5 miles – even on days when she’s just not up to it. And if she walked into the local convenient store to get some water she could glide past the chocolate donut case with no problem (even though her bodily urges are screaming at her to take a bite). BUT – if the donut man told her that those were magic donuts that would make her run faster and lose and instant 5 lbs she’d believe him in a heartbeat! Do you see the difference? I want you to think about her Level of “Gullible-ness”. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being hard to persuade) try to determine her “gullible-ness” level.

3. Cheating Lover Characteristic #3: She doesn’t respect or value you – As you can imagine, a woman who respects you (and considers you to be her world) could easily be seduced by another man if her will power is low or if she is easily persuaded by others (or both). On the other hand, if she is strong-willed and non-gullible, but she doesn’t appear to respect or value you, then she can be seduced so easily (by another guy – I mean) that it’s not even funny. And when I say “she doesn’t respect or value you” I’m referring to a slight and subtle disrespectful attitude towards you. I’m not talking about a complete and intense disrespect because obviously she wouldn’t want to continue the relationship (in most cases). So I want you to think about her Level of Respect Towards You. On a scale of 1 to 10 (10 being very respectful towards you) try to determine her respect-towards-you level.

4. Cheating Lover Characteristic #4: Her attitude and belief about cheating – Some women will cheat regardless. She could exhibit self control. She could be extremely intelligent (or hard to persuade), but there is belief somewhere inside her brain (that she isn’t sharing with you) that drives her philosophy about cheating or being faithful. I hope this makes sense. And obviously you’ll have to go on a feeling that she can’t be totally trusted because she’s not going to reveal this to you. It doesn’t work like that. It’s not like she is going to say to you: [after you ask her how was her day] Her: “Oh my day was great. My boss was being a jerk, but the day went by fast. The new guy Kevin was banging me silly during lunch time and made me have three intense quivering orgasms until me eyes got as wide as door knobs.

Oh yeah - the company is talking about downsizing. How was your day honey? There really is no Level of determining what her belief is about cheating (in most cases) because if it justifies cheating - or reveals that she is a Woman Who Will Cheat And Nothing Will Stop Her, then she is not going to tell you. Just keep in mind, that a woman DOES NOT have to be have to a Planned and Knowing Cheater to actually cheat. Some women will cheat because of one (or a combination) of the first 3 characteristics mentioned above. This proves 100% why good natured women cheat. Secret Tip: Also keep in mind that just about every woman (about 99.5%) has a speech (or rant) about how wrong she thinks cheating is, yet about 55 – 70% of women cheat! (if not more!). Any way, I hope you found this mini-report to be valuable.

If you know anyone who could benefit from this information, you have my permission to pass it along. (They’ll thank you for it) Take Care.
Warmly, Instructor CR James Author of Super Sex Power
www.SuperHappySex.com

PS: I have a friend who thinks American Men should read this report twice! PPS: You’ll want to print this out and put it in a safe place for the rest of your life!

Peace Love And Happiness
Instructor CR James
Your Secret Weapon
SuperHappySex.com

Sexual Timing

Sexual Timing:
The “missing” ingredient

CR James

Date: Sat, 22 Apr 2006 04:14:02 -0700 (PDT)
From: [C] <*********@yahoo.com> Add to Address Book Add Mobile Alert
Subject: recharging the zest between us

Hi James,
Very good book. I’m reading it now.
I have a problem. I left my home country last year to
take up permanent residence overseas. Actually, it is
a year since I am here. My wife is still back home.
All arrangements have already been made for her and
she is joining me here permanently in June.
We are married for 6 years now. Our relationship is
very strong, we write, keep in touch, talk all the
time, no problems at all.
Back home, we use to have sex and make love all the
time, no fuss. Since I arrived here, I have been going
back and forth a few times for vacation, we still had
good sex. Since I have been back in October last year,
I noticed a slight change.
Yes, we still talk OK and she is so excited and can't wait
to see me in June, once her stuff is taken care of and
packed up.
While I was out, she has been very busy with in our
in-laws, work, night classes, gym, etc. We spoke last
week and she told me that she has just lost interest in
sex totally.
She has gotten frigid. I tried talking
our usual dirty talk some time ago and she was angry,
telling me sex is dirty, why God invented this
stuff, (sex) she's not even sexually interested - it has

nothing to do with me and how she feels toward me - she
says she still loves me deeply she even told me when
she gets here she will only have it once a month, or
less. She is not having an affair or such (she even
lost taste to desire others) - I would have known a long
time if it was so. I think she has gotten so involved
in her stuff to keep herself busy that her sex points
has reached ZERO.
SHE ADMITTED TO ME THAT'S THE
PROBLEM.
That's why I bought your book. I stumbled upon it
accidentally on the net, by chance. I am desperately
looking to light the fire once she gets here, as well
as changing my approach. I am an active guy. I train
all the time, keep healthy all the time, well rounded
personality - it's just this problem that keeps nagging
me all the time. I want to make her feel sexy again.
What should I do right now while Iwait for her
arrival? Any ideas other than getting the info from
your books?
Any help from you is greatly appreciated.
Cheers, James

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Hey [C]
Interesting situation.
Let me get some info so I can help...
What kind of female is she (i.e., shy, full-of-energy, lazy, happy, depressed, not many
friends, confident, dominate, bitchy etc)?
What do you think makes her so special? What is she passionate about?
What does she complain about? (as far as the relationship or life in
general, or you)(other than god and sex talk)
Is there something else that she said that really stood out?

Does she talk down to you as if she is better than you?
How did you meet her? And what was it that made her go crazy over you (fall in love)
initially?
Was there a special move you put on her? (or did she initiate the contact)
Letme know anything else you think is important...
Take care my friend...

Warmly,
CR James

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Date: Sat, 22 Apr 2006 07:53:26 -0700 (PDT)
From: [C] <*********@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: recharging the zest between us
To: "C James"


Hi James,

Thanks for the quick reply.

Well, about her:
1. She's not shy. She likes being around
friends, especially her former school mates (girls
mainly) enjoying good laughs and conversations.
2. She is full of energy, she has confidence, but
sometimes she beats herself up - in my opinion. Sometimes
she is a bit self conscious, like when we are in
public together, she gets restless, looks around to
see whose watching her etc
3. I think what I see in her that makes her so special
is that she likes our company and always stands at my
side no matter what.We went through a lot together and are
still there. We can argue and work things out
afterwards no problem.We always make up.

4. She complains at times, about me being stubborn
sometimes(although my listening skills have improved
and she bared all her feelings last week hen she spoke
to me.
We never did that before- due to the fact I
listened without cutting in and empathized with her.
Sometimes she also complains about the world, weather,
Her/our family, her job, etc. ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE HAS
HER PERIOD, SHE GETS VERY COLD, ANGRY AND DEPRESSED/
COMPLAINING NON STOP- I WALK ON EGGSHELLS
AROUND HER AT THESE TIMES.
5. What really stood out from what she said is that she
is frigid now.
6. Actually, at times she does talk down to me and feels
that she is better than me. I am a very assertive
person. I tell her how I feel and set limits without
putting her down at all in the moment. I never
disrespected her at all, yet she says what she wants
to me any time she feels like.
7. Imet her in 1995, that time she was 22 and Iwas
25. She as not experienced in relationships far less
Sex.
Iwas her first steady man/relationship. She was a
virgin, I was the first to have sex with her. I took
my time and had sex with her 6 months after we met. I
took it really slow with her and gradually, she opened
up until she was always the first to initiate. I was
the one to make the first move. I showed her all the
tactics of lovemaking and how to enjoy it. I also
treated her with respect. Always.
2 weeks ago, I sent her some fantasy stories I made up
of her, which included us having sex and doing crazy
things. Here’s a sample of her response:
"I am so damn flattered that you are still so crazy
about me babe, it just makes me more excited about
coming home to you and our life as we once knew it to
be and even better off course. This is really a bang
start for me so keep on pumping darling.
I dreamt of you last night and you were an astronaut

and a pilot at different times in your life. I have
this hunch or rather FAITH that we will be very
comfortable later on in our lives, I just have a gut
feeling. I don't know how and when but I can just see
it already and no I don't think it is wishful
thinking. With hard work, strong mind and ability we
will make it in the future. "
Here’s another one I got last week, after we spoke
And she expressed her true self:
"I do feel better as I opened up to you about
everything that has been going on inside me. I just
want us to be happy , ok honey? I love u so much"
Also, at the time when I called her, I told her then she
is coming, to pack the sexy outfit I always liked
seeing her with in her bag, to maybe relive our hot
times. She told me-" I’m coming up, I have so much to
do, I have to study for exams in May, I have to get
things together before I leave, sell stuff, etc and
you want me to pack a stupid outfit, for what, for
sex? I cannot think of sex right now. I have too much
to do before I come up to you. I’m very cold to it
now.Why God invented it?Why? Just like that, for
someone to be thrusting in and out of me like
that? That’s sick!!"
WELL, WHEN I FIRST MET HER WAY BACK, SHE WAS TALKING
ABOUT IT LIKE THAT, EXACTLY. IT'S LIKE HISTORY
REPEATING ITSELF, OR MAYBE SHE HASN'T SEEN ME FOR 8
MONTHS...
THAT'S ALL THE INFO I HAVE, JAMES.
Please give me some good advice, as the date is coming
near (1 month's time or so).
[C]

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Hey [C]

As far as her anger towards sex, I wouldn't take it as her natural views.
It is important to be able to identify when she is completely not-in-the-mood for hearing
or discussing sex (which is probably something that you have to deal with more in the
future when you are with her)...
Because what some guys naturally do is ask the woman things like 'Why do you feel God
shouldn't have creating it?' or 'Why do you feel that a guy thrusting in and out of you is
bad' and other questions like that. And all that does is keep her in that mind state longer...
A good way to look at it is by thinking of all women as having a percentage of time when
she is receptive for sex talk AND non-receptive for sex talk...
So 30% of the time she could be receptive AND 70% she could be non-receptive
When you identify the non-receptive time, it will make a lot of sense to just back off...
Because a discussion or analyzing it (which is what we guys tend to do) will
LENGTHEN that time so over a course of a day, week or month... consistent
'unknowingly harmful' discussions WILL increase the wrong percentage and then it
changes to something like:
22% of the time she is receptive to sex talk (or discussions of sex)... THEN over time
15% of the time she is receptive to sex talk (or discussions of sex)... THEN over time
7% of the time she is receptive to sex talk (or discussions of sex)... THEN over time
You could literally (and some guys have done this unintentionally) program her into
hating sex with you – or with any guy!
This would be a full blown disaster and destruction to a healthy
tender female!

Timing is important.
When a woman is saying bizarre things like that (i.e. Why did God create sex?), just take
it as an indication that now is a bad time for sex talk…
(Let’s face it - it’s possible for a woman to get to the point where she is body-shaking
cumming like crazy!)

So don't take it personal...
NEVER take it personal…
And NEVER take it as her true feelings - even though she may sound very convincing...
Even though she may think she will always feel that way...
(As long as she has a brain that allows her to absorb your words and nerve endings in her
body, she can reach orgasmic levels she never knew existed!)
It's kind of like being at a funeral, and all of sudden your favorite comedian enters the
church and starts telling jokes... Chances are they won't be funny...And in your 'time of
stress' you might say something like 'That guy is a moron. He’s actually not funny at all.
All comedians are jerks in their own way... Who was the idiot who invented stand-up
comedy’ and so on...
But a few days later -- when you are in a better frame of mind -- you may watch the
comedian perform again, and laugh like crazy...
It’s about Timing...
So just think of it that way...

When you are trying to get her in a sexual mind state...

STEP 1: Focus on getting her in a happy mode - a happy state of
mind (for reasons explained earlier)
STEP 2: Build you value (all the tactics and stuff scattered
through the ebooks and reports)
STEP 3: Build the sexual tension (all the tactics and stuff
scattered through the ebooks and reports) - In most cases,
building your sexual value creates the tension automatically -
especially if she 'feels' the change...
STEP 4: Introduce the topic of sex slowly (if you are uncertain
of her mind state) then gradually increase it to the point where
the initiation is obvious (not as calculated).... (it's no
different then having sex. Unless she is extremely horny, the
average sensible guy won’t just ram his penis in her and start
plowing away fast and hard from the very beginning - so it's a
good idea to take the exact same approach when getting her open
to the idea of sex -- if you are talking that kind of approach
[Direct Conversation-Driven Sexual Tension Building] -- introduce
the topic/idea of sex slowly and build the conversation about
it.)
Your case is a little unique b/c when she is far away and you can't really ‘measure’ her
mind state at the time she receives your letter or email...
Plus not seeing her and being with her doesn't give you the same 'full' understanding of
her experiences and what she is going through as if you were with her...
There have been times when I sent my fiancé a sexy email while she was at work and
nothing happened... and it some cases, it appeared to actually piss her off...
On the other hand, I’ve sent emails that had her hot and horny throughout the whole day
to the point where she couldn't think of anything else...to the point where that was the
only thing on her mind - having wild sex...
So the formula to creating a horny woman via email is NOT what the message says
(directly)...
That’s what most guys think…
The formula is sending the email that cheers her up (non-sexual) or identifying a preexisting
happy mode and then sending a value building (if necc.) and then the sexy
email... [Steps 1 through 4 from above]
So it's good to look at it as a time-focused strategic process of sending Lust Signals (or
signals that cause a very predictable emotional response)...

So as far as the formula....
1. Make her happy
2. Build value
3. Build tension
4. Initiate Sex (or the agreement of Future Sex)
... you can take a long term approach
1. Spending a few days or weeks just 'making her happy'
2. Then, spending a few days or weeks just 'building value'
3. Then, spending a few days or weeks just 'building sexual tension'
4. Then, spending a few days or weeks just 'introducing sex (and initiating)'
Or you can take a short term approach
1. Spending a few hours or minutes just 'making her happy'
2. Then, spending a few hours or minutes just 'building value'
3. Then, spending a few hours or minutes just 'building sexual tension'
4. Then, spending a few hours or minutes just 'introducing sex (and initiating)'
I hope that helps...
The issue IS NOT her being a woman that doesn't have the biological capabilities to
enjoy sex like every woman on earth to the point where she is angry with God about why
it is exists...
The issue IS not knowing the potentially sexual-value decreasing affects of non-strategic
TIMING...
So again whenever a woman is in one these crazy ass irrational moods, it's best to move
the subject to something else (affecting the percentages) and/or communicating to her in
some way that her feelings are limited to her current feelings (NOT how she always
feels)
'Oh honey, I understand if thinking of sex RIGHT NOW is a bad idea. After all you've
been working hard and this and that is going on...'
So you say something that has an 'element of understanding' (empathizing with her -
showing her that you understand her emotions) which she'll accept because that's
obviously her primary focus at the time BUT it also gets her to accept that her views are
limited (time-based) to her current mode....which is VERY VERY IMPORTANT
because the last thing you want is for the woman to program herself into believing she
actually hates sex - to the point where she begins to feel this way all of time... in which

case, you have to start an approach of reminding her of times when she has proven that at
the RIGHT TIME she can enjoy sex...
She has the memories to prove that at the RIGHT TIME she can enjoy sex.
I hope that helps... good luck

Warmly
CR James
Super HappySex.com
Lust Signals.com

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Hi James,

GRREAT!!!!What a revelation!!! I didn't think of it
that way. I already took her feelings, hook, line and
sinker!!!!Well, in the meantime, Iwill study your
books, learn as much as I can and avoid the sex topic
when talking to her. I will talk about other stuff,
besides sex. When she gets here, don't worry, the mood
will dictate. I just have to do what u advise me to do
and let the chips fall here they may.
Your’e right. I did take her comments too personal.
Shame on me. Now I know better.
[C]

Peace Love And Happiness
Instructor CR James
Your Secret Weapon
SuperHappySex.com

Liquid Smooth Super Seducer

Liquid Smooth
Super Seducer

CR James

99.9% of guys …(that includes virgins) (that includes guys who can’t seem to
get a girl’s number) (that includes guys who are miserable & skeptical) (that
includes guys who can’t do the same things other guys do to get results) (that
includes guys who don’t get any results – even though they own every seduction
system out there) (that includes guys who are so hopeless they are seconds
away from giving up completely on women) (that includes guys who think they
are cursed) (that includes guys who have been rejected before because of their
looks) (that includes peeping toms) (that includes perverts and stalkers)….are
actually so close (a fraction of a millimeter) to becoming a Liquid Smooth Super
Seducer that if they only realized it (or had the inspiration to believe for a
second) they would be so wired, hyper and excited that the end result would
render the whole process useless!

OK, let me make it clear…

This may seem like a bunch of rah rah fluff, so let me follow it with some valuable
information that will hopefully help you (inspire you) to put it into perspective so
that you can benefit from this philosophy forever.
But first, I want to make sure we are on the same page. Because you may agree
with everything below or some of the things below or none of the things below:
(I’ve made them as simple as humanly possible)

Answer Yes or No: (This is simple)
There is a such thing as a Dumb Person.
There is a such thing as a Smart Person.
Dumb People consistently make Dumb Decisions.
Smart People consistently make Smart Decisions.

If you explain something to a Person, and he thinks it makes sense – plus he
feels and knows that his old way of doing things does not make sense – but yet
he continues to do things the old way – is he considered Dumb?
Before you answer that I want to tell you a story – a quick story. On a particular
day, I was in “chill mode” – life was great and the birds were singing all of my
favorite songs!

I was talking to a gentlemen about how he could make this girl he just met more
attracted to him. And he said “it makes sense” and then the next day, he came
back to me and said “damn! that’s some brilliant stuff!” and I just smiled. (this has
happened plenty of times – but I’m not bragging because there is no reason to…
He then asked me another question…

“How in the hell do you come up with stuff?” – and I just smiled...
Now, let me get to something that puzzles the hell out of me (or at least it used
to)… and by the way, I never told him how I came up with it – but you may
already know…

It’s the philosophy.
It’s like putting on magic glasses - where the whole world changes in your favor!
Let me know if you agree: (yes or no)
1. Successful billionaires are using better philosophies for making money than
homeless people.
2. A below-average looking guy (with a below-average salary) who can make
women consistently get hot and slippery-horny with ease (where she has the
“mean sexy eyes” along with the long deep breathing) is using a better
philosophy than a guy that is very attractive (with an above average salary) that
does not consistently turn women on.
This is simple, right?

The answers are easy. (The answers are “Yes” for both)

2 Apples + 3 Apples = 5 Apples.

By the way – when the guy asked me how do I come up with this stuff, I never
told him the answer, but I’ll tell you right now…
The answer is: It’s the philosophy that drives the philosophy that drives the
philosophy.
“CR, what the hell does that mean!?”
OK, that might not make any sense right away, but I will tell you that it’s a core
philosophy and I refer to it as Super Persuasion. It’s a unique process but let me
get back on track…

Let me get waaaaayyy back on track because I was giving someone else some
tips one day (and you’re about to learn a very important philosophy in a
second)…

And he did not get the same results…
But before he tried it he said, it’s not possible. I don’t think it will work.

Me: What won’t work?
His Dumb Ass: Making “Lisa” more attracted to me.
Me: Do you think you can affect her mood? For example, making her
happier by saying something?
His dumb ass: Yes.
Me: Do you think you have the human ability to make her see you
just a little tiny bit better than how she sees you now? For
example - if she was incredibly repulsed by you to the point
where just looking at you made her vomit 10 consecutive times, is
it possible to increase your attraction – for example, to the
point where she only vomits 7 consecutives times?
His Dumb Ass: Yes.
Me: So it is possible for YOU, to generate more attraction in
this specific human female (“Lisa”)?
His Dumb Ass: Yes.
Me: Cool. So what is the cut-off point? Is it when she only
vomits 5 times? Is it when she only gags? Is it when she can
smile and say to herself ‘he’s a cool guy’ Is it when you are
able to get her vagina slippery wet for 9 seconds, and then it
instantly gets dry after the 9 seconds because you have reached
your cut-off point?
His Dumb Ass: Well I guess it’s possible for me to get her horny,
but I still don’t think it will work….

(let’s pause)

He is referring to the same advice I gave the other guy – who got the results.
Let’s just say the guy that said “How in the hell do you come up with stuff?” after
he got the results is using a better philosophy.
He’s smart because something made sense to him and he did it.
“His Dumb Ass” is dumb, because something made sense to him and he refused
to even try it – WHEN he truly wants to change.
The super duper mega ultra part was that this guy was doing “other things”
naturally that works in his favor. He was too dumb to realize his own potential. I
saw amazing things that this guy did that would make him a Liquid Smooth Super
Seducer in no time!

Understand, that my frustration is not because this guy wasn’t the most intelligent
guy in the world. It was because I was compassionately trying to help him and he
was being a flat out Dumb Ass!
He’s probably not improving in any area in his life.
He’ll be the same Dumb Guy who doesn’t realize how close he is to being a
Super Seducer for the rest of his life – even if he lived to be 234 years old!
Could you imagine the expression on his face, if he was able to look back at his
entire life and see how close he actually was?

The true measure of intelligence (to me) is how often you do things that make
sense to you. And the growth (and results) come from how consistent you are at
making the right decisions (that make sense to you) – along with continuing to
learn sensible ways to getter better at having sex.
You don’t have to be a rocket scientist. I’m more impressed with a guy who has a
much lower IQ than these rocket scientists but takes the time to learn about
getting women hot and horny…
And why do I say this?

Because the Rocket Scientist may have figured out how to calculate the Third
Loop-Hole in Parallel Universes, but most of them haven’t figured out how to get
a human woman horny (and it’s easy as pie – in fact the more you continue to
learn, the easier it becomes)…
And why do I say this?

Because you can test it out right now!

Experiment Time Boys and Girls: Go to the nearest facility that has a Rocket
Scientist. And then ask him would he rather work in the lab for 2 hours or “spend
time” with Girl-A [and Girl-A is any sexy woman you are able to visualize]…
And by “spend time” I mean have passionate sex with her – or marry her and
make passionate love to her…
You get the idea…

He will probably – and I’m just guessing - select “having sex” with Girl-A…
You decide what that means…
What’s important is in a few days, I want to share something I never shared
before and that is the philosophy of Super Persuasion.
Warmly
Instructor CR James

Here are examples of smart guys who got results. If you know someone who
could use this information, pass it along – because sometimes all the person
needs is the reality that it is possible.

From: **** <******@yahoo.com>
To: crjames100 @ gmail.com
Date: Nov 22, 2005 8:31 AM
Subject: Your course is the bomb

Here’s my story for those who don’t believe this works. I never wrote a testimonial until now.
I’m single and was looking at seduction methods hoping to improve my chances of meeting more
women as well as getting more sex. When you are 39 it doesn’t happen often. I decided to try
your methods on my next date. I only read the course once and was really HALF ASS applying
your methods.
Date 1: I laid some easy ground work. Date 2: She’s more than interested she wants some but I
decided to build more points just a little more to see what happens, well by date three I was
EMBARRASSED as we were in public. She was all over me, so much so that we had to leave 20
mins into the date back to my place of course, once in the door she on the couch NAKED and
well you can guess the rest.
If I had video of this hot blonde basically trying to have sex in a public place you would swear it
was staged, that’s how crazy she was for me. I just wanted to say thank you James as it’s been a
long time since any woman has wanted me that bad and getting her so hot that she initiated
everything was great for the both of us. I’m gonna reread the course and study it more this time.
It’s almost scary but in a good way. BEST MONEY I EVER SPENT !!!!
Thank you,
Jay

From: CR James
To: **** <*****@yahoo.com>
Date: Nov 23, 2005 4:06 PM
Subject: Re: Your course is the bomb
Thanks for the kind words john!
i have to give you a testimonial "you are the man!"
and i say that seriously because not every guy takes action like you did...
i just got finish reading a email from this guy (2 seconds ago!) that wanted me to prove to him that
it works... he wanted me to email him a bunch of advice (spending my valuable time) concerning
getting sexual value and if it worked, he "promised" to buy...lol
i told him he doesn't have to buy. and it doesn't really matter to me whether he buys or not..lol
i hope he didn’t pass out from shock. I guess he wanted me to "perform" - as if i'm a juggler in the
subway or something.
that's the reason why i had to give you a testimonial. and i was serious about it -b/c you (and
others like you) basically landed on the site [the same exact site]. bought the book. read it. tried it.
and got results...
as a matter of fact, i'm going to attach a free copy of some new stuff i'm working on.. no one has
ever seen it.. not even my beta testers!
good luck...
keep me updated...
peace
cr

Here’s another email. And the cool thing about this guy – is that he reveals the
magic philosophy in reverse. (any guy that has experienced going from having a
girl addicted to you to having her not interested at all, knows that the increase in
sexual value is unidirectional (meaning you can get better with woman and you
can get worse with women)
Even an AOL user knows the magic philosophy! (that’s a joke Matt, lol)

From: ******@aol.com <******@aol.com> Mailed-By: aol.com
To: crjames100@gmail.com
Date: Nov 9, 2005 2:51 PM
Subject: Re: Matt - Here is your secret link
Well you definitely have some worthwhile information to teach. I can see parallels with some of
the really good stuff in the seduction community, but your stuff if you pardon my language cuts
out all the shit and explains things just as they should be explained.
CR James 2005-2006 Copyright. All Rights Reserved. 6 TreePortal.com
I am really enjoying reading the book. It "makes sense" with how I understand things already...but
reminds you to apply it if you know what I mean, and also further ingrains it in the readers
knowledge. I came out of a relationship a fewmonths back and as I am reading through the book
my thoughts are like "oh yeah that happened...and that...and that!"
It's freaky, but I can actually identify that, in the beginning of my last relationship I was acting in
many of the ways instructed by you, and getting mind blowing sex, I even made this girl cum, in
under a minute, while she was still wearing her trousers.
She had a look of disbelief on her face just before her orgasm as she felt herself just about to
cum. As we grew closer, of course I let my guard down and fell into other behaviours (the wrong
ones...as described in your book), and the same girl who couldn't keep her hands off me (even in
public) would now not let me near her. Of course, I made the mistake of [doing a mistake] etc
etc...you know the score.
It's a learning process though, and it's amazing how the whole thing can actually be explained in
a linear fashion. Well done you've done a sterling job.
Cheers
Matt


Here is a guy who did something super brilliant:
He changed his approach, because the old one wasn’t working. And as a result he got different
results. Read about the strange change he saw:

From: S <*****@sbcglobal.net> Signed-By: sbcglobal.net
To: CR James | Seduction Games
Date: Nov 8, 2005 12:43 PM

This worked great!!!! I have been trying to hook up with my LJBF for months. When she would be
over at my house and I received a phone call, I would quickly end the call by saying "I have
important company...call me back" and hang up, letting her know she was special...right? Well, I
got fed up with the let’s just be friends routine and [started doing something different].
Yesterday she called me and I [did something different]
CR, you said in the report to look for a change?
When I went to her house this morning to take her on a job interview
.............she was all over me!
Tongue Down The Throat!
~ Yea, I saw the change alright.
Now she's talking about a committed relationship...or wanting it...I could have had the tail
yesterday but denied it, further strengthening my position.
I'm back on top now.
Thanks,,,it does work!
S. from Texas


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Date: Fri, 7 Oct 2005 10:33:13 EDT
Subject: Re: Program Success
Hello
First let me start out with a compliment,
Man you really know your stuff and the easy to follow simple terms, the way you
write is unbeatable.
I used a simple technique first I did a little something I sent her a text message
telling her [something]
However the night before we were lying in bed and she says sorry I haven’t been
sexual past couple days.
Well yeah she has poison ivy, so i played it cool and said "no biggie I know you
got that skin disease so I really haven’t given you sex in a couple days" of course
she laughed I just remain quiet and went to sleep.
That day I sent the text I also told her [something else]. The moment she came
home from work she actually tackled me on the couch. So I said hi as I always do
with a hug and a kiss.
So she grabs me and I can tell how she kisses me that she's trying to entice me
to go upstairs. Well I said hey I gotta bail and run home to take a shower cause
we were going to see a concert.
She said oh ok. So she goes upstairs to take a nap.
[to make a long story short, Steve came back and did some other cool stuff]
DUDE I wasn’t touching her anywhere, but her back her hair her thighs.
I didn’t touch the sweet spot and out of nowhere she scoots over panties to side
and tries to [force the penetration]
I held out for another 15 minutes than it was on.
NEXT TIME I’M DOING THE FISH FILTER thing [a technique that is in the book
Lust Signals] LOL!
You are the GOD of Seduction.
Steve
PS: By the way I don’t catch Poison IVY.. LMAO

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The secret to seducing certain types of women

The secret to seducing certain types of women

CR James

The secret to seducing certain types of women
Recently I've been hit with the same question over and over again.
Guys want to know how to seduce a certain type of woman.
In other words, these guys realized they are with a certain type of woman, and now they
want to know the best way to seduce that particular type of woman
It's a good question.

But no one asks the real question
NO ONE!!!
The real question is: How many sub-personalities does she have? (in other words, how
many types is she)and how do I identify when she is in one of those types?
The truth is these sub-personalities determine
How serious she is at that time
Her voice tone
Her energy level
How she responds to you

A bunch of little stuff like that
Power Tip: When you can identify her current sub-personality, all of the seduction
knowledge that is stored in your brain becomes more useful, beneficial and effective
Makes sense?

You see when you identify her 'type' or 'personality type' or 'psychological make-up' it
gives you an unspeakable advantage (and the secret is, you don't have to be trained to
identify what is obvious, because you have the amazing ability to make a human
observation)

Anyone who sees this is much more in-tuned than the average guyI should know,
because I talk to tons of guys and trust me the average guy only wants to know how to
seduce women

But the guywho wants to know how to seduce a specific type is on to something...
(maybe you have wondered about this. If so, you are way ahead of most guys.)

How do I seduce a woman who is shy?
How do I seduce a woman who is very confident?
Again, what you really want to start thinking about is sub-personality identification
That is the key my friend

Think about it let's just say you have classified a particular woman as a certain type.
For example you classify her as being a shy girl (because 75% of the time she is
reserved). The question is: What is going to happen when she begins to operate from a
more outgoing perspective?

Some women are shy for the most part, but when they are in certain environments they
are no longer shy.
Some women are shy for the most part, but when they are talking about certain things
they are no longer shy.

You see if she isn't in shy mode AND you are still looking at her as Shy Girl than your
approach is going to be supremely compromised
and it doesn't matter how much seduction information you have installed in your
brain.

Now let's put it altogether by looking at it in another way (a special way!)
And this will tie everything together(oh yeah, not that this is a topic on how to seduce
shy girls, but if you own a copy of SSP then I will tell you that the SC System is
PERFECT for shy girls just in case, you didn't figure it out already.)
Let's get back on track

And let me note, that I'm using 'shy girls' as an example of a 'type' of female, because
it's important to understand that your results will depend strictly on how well your
approach (the signals you send) matches with her type.
Here's an example that stresses the importance of identifying her type.

Two girls could be considered SHY

But Jenna (Girl #1) is shy 90% of the time at an intensity of 7 (on a scale of 1
10; 10 being extremely shy) and 10% of the time she is somewhat shy at an
intensity of 5
And Alexis (Girl #2) is shy 60% of the time at an intensity of 9.5, 20% of the time
at an intensity of 8, 20% of the time at an intensity of 2 (meaning she is extremely
outgoing)

Please make sure you follow that (read it a few times if you have to) btw, this is the
kind of math that is fun. And if I ever become a math professor, everyone would get A's
(at least the guys would)
Ok, POP QUIZ:

For 10,000 points,which girl is more shy? (Jenna or Alexis)
(scroll down for answer)

Answer: It depends on when you ask the question
Right?
At certain times (and situations/moods/environments etc), Jenna will be more shy and
other times Alexis will be more shy.
Besides, it doesn't matter what the woman is like overall! (i.e. her overall type). The only
thing that matters is her type at the particular moment in time.
What matters is what she is like at the time you execute your arsenal of seduction
knowledge. Because that way you know which one of the seduction techniques stored
in your brain to apply
It really is that simple.

Timing is the key to being effective at anything in this world.
Could you imagine getting a speeding ticket?
Officer: Here you go sir, sign here.
You: I'm sorry, officer. This ticket does not apply to me,
because I follow the speed limit 97% of the time. So
overall I am a Speed Limit Follower. You can either throw
away that silly ticket or charge me 3% of the fine!
Officer: Step out of the car asshole!

As you can clearly see this type of thinking doesn't hold up in the real world
I know a guy who says he has mastered every technique and philosophy (which I think is
more important) that I have every produced. But something goes wrong for him He has
the amazing ability (much better than average) to memorize and demonstrate persistence,
but is lacking in the identifying department.
In other words, the average man has an identifying rating of 5.0 (this is the ability to
make a human observation)
Well his rating was a 1.0

So he would study a pre-planned strategy for cultivating sexual desire to the point where
it made a lot of sense to him, then with wired eye-balls he would rush over to his poor
lovely wife and bombard her with dialogues then he pause for a few seconds and look
her up and down starring her in the pupils waiting for her to sexually attack him

It doesn't work like that.
So I had to teach him basic human observation skills. (A skill that you already have)
Here's the good news for you. (And this is how I always look at knowledge)
If all of this stuff makes sense to you (even a little bit), then automatically your
Identifying Rating has increased!
That's how it works.

In fact, by law it has to increase (so this is going to benefit you even if you still feel the
same)because anytime you power up your Mental Motor (your philosophy that
defines how you approach anything in life) you are forced to become better at things
So I would strongly urge you right now, to take the time to identify all of her subpersonalities.
(i.e. the woman you are in a relationship with or the woman you are
interested in)
You don't have to have a Masters in Psychology to do this
Just keep it super simple. For example:

Happy & Loving Brenda
Bitchy Brenda
Afraid Brenda
Party Brenda

If you said 'let's get wild and crazy and just take our clothes off right now!!!!'
Even though I'm shocked that you would say something so damn corny, do you think
Bitchy Brenda and Party Brenda would have different responses to that?
As a matter of fact there were several guys who used a certain SSP technique to make
their wives incredibly horny, to the point where one guy asked me if it was voodoo.
LOL (because he never seen a woman ever -- get that horny before so he thought he
was doing something evil. LOL!

To me, it's funny, but let's be fair and respectful: Women have the right to get horny just
like a guy does.
But get this

Another guy used the voodoo technique (that's not what it's really called) and his wife
started crying!!

I'm talking about the exact same technique (or pre-planned strategy) (or compassionate
method of allowing her to reach a state of mind where she is comfortable with expressing
an intense version of her basic human desire to have sex)
The reason is simple. He had a very poor Identifying Rating.

If you can tell the difference between her sub-personalities (and for some reason many
guys can't) AND you employ sensible techniques that create a natural and healthy
desire in women than you are in the Top 2% of Seducers (Guys who are Ninja-Skilled at
turning women on) in the world
Read that again.

Here's an example of something that is not sensible (to me)
Someone sent me a link to site where a guy was talking about how to get women horny
fast.

The expert in so many words said all you need to do is lick on her earlobe and she'll
get horny as hell. That's the secret.

I almost fell out of my chair from laughing so damn hard!
The article had other humorous suggestions that nearly made me pass out from laughing.
And apparently a lot of guys respect this so called expert.

(I'm only sarcastic 10% of the time at any intensity of 10.00)

But he said he ended up screwing the woman after licking her earlobe so he knew the
process of licking her earlobe was effectiveListen I'll get to the point because my
10% is almost up. And I'll compassionately (about 70%) keep the expert free from
public bashing

Licking a woman's earlobe does not get a woman horny
And Rubbing her legs does not get a woman horny.
And Rubbing her arms does not get a woman horny.
(permission to gasp)

Licking a woman's earlobe let's the woman who is already horny for you know that you
are also horny for her. LOL. That's itmy friend.
I don't know how else to put it.

If it were really effective (this is what I mean by sensible techniques) than a homeless
crack head could walk up to a woman and lick her woman's earlobe and get the same
results

Peace Love And Happiness
Instructor CR James
Your Secret Weapon
SuperHappySex.com

(You Enjoy the Tenderness of a Woman, so it doesn't make sense to put off getting your
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Levels of Approaching The Untold Trick To Approaching Women

Levels of Approaching The Untold
Trick To Approaching Women

CR James

Date: Sat, 17 Dec 2005 07:27:15 -0800 (PST)
From: "E" <*****@yahoo.com>
Subject: Another question for you ( I feel confused)
To: crjames100@gmail.com


CR, I feel confused. I've gotten these wonderful ebooks from you and finally am learning to Slowly let go of my guilt which had held strong to me for too long now. AS a result of reading the hate/love swing ebook, I realized that I've been projecting guilt and innocence on many girls as well as project "sluttines" on other girls and that had kept me back.

When I read the book the second time around, it finally hit me, so I'm recovering. But I'm confused about another thing. I read the Lust Signals reports, and was interested in the story of how Your buddy and you were shopping and he hit on the clerk by asking for her Number while she smilingly declined and gave you her number. I'm confused in terms of what I need to focus on when I see a girl that I like. I guess studying seduction for too long has taken its toll on me and given me confused theories in terms of approaching women.

I'm not currently in any relationship, but the ones I've been in a long time ago (before I caught the guilty guy virus and had a drought) I remember the girls being the "aggressor" They were the ones initiating the encounter whether it was fooling around, playing "doctor" or what have you :)

Now, later on I have also encountered situations where the girl was interested and had her friend tell me that she was interested, (I hadn't even seen the girl yet, but we worked together in this large store, never mind that I blew it during the date), it was the girl again being interested and taking some action though indirectly.

Here's a scenario. I see a girl I like but do not know. Let's say that I have the chance to talk to her because we're in the same environment a lot (school, class, etc) So I have the opportunity to talk to the girl, and let's even go as far as to say that I find out she is single.

My confusion stems from not knowing how to strategically approach the situation to get her interested in me. One approach says, go in ask her out soon, the other says, take it slow, build some interest, some value and leave her wondering, but let her take the action. And here's my dilemma. Women never take action!! So how do I approach this type of situation strategically?

I feel confused about what my approach to this should be, because with Some girls I even feel like I'm missing my chance of asking them out when other guys jump in, ask her out and she says okay and then her becomes her boyfriend, and I get pissed because that guy could have been me.

So I feel like I should take action ASAP, but then I know the rejection risk is higher even if she was a wee bit interested, or is it? Doesn't it happen that when asked out a girl could say yes even if she isn't interested right away but become interested later on? Is this maybe the wrong thing to focus on because of the high risk of rejection?

I don't know :( Thanks for your time. [E] Hey E. To me, the best approach is looking at it in terms of signals. And being a former signal processing engineer, I learned that you can always: Reduce the static of a signal Increase the amplitude Add a set of signals together for a given range of time So with that said,

Step 1. The first step is MASTERING the "signal that you are comfortable" with just going up to the girl and engaging in a conversation. The only way to do this is to just approach the girl and initiate a conversation. That’s the only goal.

If you do this enough times (while realizing that it's not that hard), you will have no choice but to get comfortable with the process - because that's how our minds are designed. And if you strip it down into a raw primary signal, it's impossible to fail. Because you are only trying to get comfortable with walking up to the girl and having a few words come out your mouth.

The cool thing about this signal is the SUCCESS of it is based purely on just walking up the female. You don't even have to ask her for her number. It doesn't even have to be a girl you are attracted to. The goal is to send the signal that you are comfortable with talking to girls. But that doesn't mean that you won't be a little nervous from time to time.

Let’s say there are 2 guys. One guy gets about 3 phone numbers per week, and the other guy gets 3 numbers per year. 99.9% of the time, the 3perweek-Guy is approaching more girls. The secret is it doesn't mean that he isn't a little nervous (from time to time) when he walking up to these girls. The only difference is that he TAKES ACTION even though he's nervous. "Take Action Even If You Are Nervous" It’s all about walking up to her and engaging in a conversation.

Step 2. Mastering the signal of self-value - after you are comfortable with just going up and talking to her, you'll want to do something else. You’ll want to now master walking up to a girl while having a certain mindset – focusing on the things about you that are special and unique. Focus on your successes (don't matter how small they are)...

The reality is a woman can (just from talking) tell whether the guy values himself. A lot of guys attempt to increase their sexual value in the eyes of the female, but they haven't increased the sexual value (or base value) in the eyes of themselves...

So say things to yourself: "I’m the man." "I remember the time when I met Lisa, and at first she was playing hard to get, but two weeks later..." "I’m a funny likable guy and women love that quality more than anything" Once you master the first signal you can easily master the second signal. And you'll realize that there really isn't hard work involved like some guys make it out to be.

Because all you are doing is tweaking your Mental Motor which means you are operating with a better philosophy. And if you say these things about yourself, you'll send the signals. And any time you project a confident attitude you will always offend people who are not confident (people with bad mental motors - people who don't have the mental strength to see the good in themselves, others and the world)...

So do not pacify these people by toning down your "I am the man" signals. If a person really analyzed himself he would have no choice but to find a few things that are amazing.

It’s impossible not to. So you MASTER sending the "I can walk up and just say a few words to a female" signal. (Without the fear that she'll change into a 9ft beast that preys on human souls) You’ll discover that it's easy. And there really isn't a worse case scenario.

Because if you say "hello" and just start talking, 95% of the time she'll listen, because women are curious... If you start talking to a female and she just rolls her eyes and ignores you, then consider yourself lucky, because that's NOT the kind of female you want to deal with. LOL...

Most girls are actually good-natured and they just enjoy talking to guys who are down to earth. People enjoy talking to other down-to-earth people. My belief is that 85-95% of women are good natured. They don't have evil plans to rule the world... they are not trying to figure out ways to murder animals and children.

They are not running the streets like a pack of wild wolves knocking down old ladies. You’ll find that most women are actually tender and good-natured people. (even the hot ones!) So if she is good natured, it feels amazing to her just to have a respectful guy holding a fun conversation. And then from there you can do the techniques (for example, the one in Super Lust Buttons and the ONLY REASON why that creates a powerful affect on women is because they typically don’t experience a guy that comes up to her with that approach...

The exhausting nice guys vs. jerks articles and discussions, have actually turned down-to-earth guys into idiots that women laugh out. So let that work in your favor because the mass majority of guys are either: Overly nice and afraid of women Guys that try too hard (the sad-to-watch nice guy who puts on the jerk act) Natural jerks/idiots/clowns (that only impress low self-esteem women with issues)

**Note: For some reason many guys believe that ALL women go crazy of jerks. I can think of 20 women that I personally that would laugh at those clowns so hard, they would run home to their mommies – and I don’t how many low quality women they have slept with. I personally do not believe in waiting for a girl to approach.

The point I was making in Lust Signals is after you consistently start sending the right signals, women will be able to "tell" something is amazing about you... (Some people refer to it as sexual aura. so I made the point that any man can achieve this.)

And if she is really responding to the signals she'll become MORE responsive. It’s really about human nature. The more you really want something, the more you'll go after it. In other words, if you master sending a bunch of powerful signals the right way and it just blows her away (and this isn't a fictional process - it happens are the time - there are reasons why she is blown away), then the thought will enter her mind: What if I never see this amazing guy again?

I really had fun talking to him. There are not a lot of guys like him! Then she will predictably say something like 'You know what how about you take my number' No one likes to miss out on something great. The good news is that you don't need to have that kind of affect on her. So I don't think that needs to be a goal...

Women don't exclusively give their phone numbers to guys they consider the greatest and sexiest guy that ever met... Women don't exclusively have sex with guys they consider the greatest and sexiest guy that ever met... Plus I believe that you can achieve great success by seeing the value in the woman - even though there is some psychological buttons you can press along, you can still respect her.

The crazy thing about doing that is it automatically shows that you have respect for yourself. There are tons of myths out there. The reality is people who really respect themselves and have true confidence will naturally have respect for others. I personally think it’s smart to focus on women with confidence and self-respect. (even though most guys are scared of them) And btw, these women enjoy sex - just like any other woman...

So the whole process is like riding a bike. The more you do it, the better you naturally get at it. It doesn't matter how great at math you are, or how artistic you, or how smart you... You still have to practice (or get comfortable), because everyone has an "inner genius" that provides us with being comfortable the more you do something - and the better you approach it. If a rocket scientist can't ride a bike, it's not like he can just hop on for the first time and then seconds later he is gliding down the street.

And then 4 seconds later he is doing free style tricks and back flips on the bike... The good thing about meeting women and getting her number is you don't have to create an amazing affect on her when you meet her. You don't have to get her to a point where she says "Oh no!!!! My life will be hell if I don't see this man ever again"...

So that means you don't have to be the free-style biker who does tricks and back flips... You just need to be comfortable. (as a starting point - and if necessary, you can glide in some subtle psychologically-based techniques in there.)

If you got on a bike and rode down the street, chances are people can tell that you are comfortable with riding a bike. But if you got on the bike and wobbled around and crashed into a parked car, then chances are people might wonder if you have ever rode a bike before. Some guys talk to women as if they haven’t ever talked to a woman before.

The truth is they have already figured out and learned how to talk to a woman at a very early age.
They don’t realize they already have the skill inside of their brains. That’s what will give you the amazing advantage – because most guys don’t realize this. Once you see the crystal clear picture, it's actually easy to get comfortable. Because the only thing you need to get comfortable with is (in this order):

LEVEL 1 - Acknowledging the human existence of women (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

LEVEL 2 - Looking at the female human from a far away distance (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

LEVEL 3 - Being in the same building as a female human [grocery store, class room, gym, club, mall, book store, work] (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

LEVEL 4 - Establishing calm eye contact and saying hi to a female [without the fear of her clawing your eyes out] (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

LEVEL 5 - Establishing a friendly conversation with the tender good-natured woman [without the fear of her burning you up with her deadly dragon-breath] (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

LEVEL 6 - Calmly asking for her number (without the burning fear that she will stab you in the stomach with her pencil) ====== From there...

LEVEL 7 - Getting comfortable with easing in signals (either while talking to her in person or on the phone) (if you are comfortable with doing this, then move to the next level)

THE NEXT LEVEL 8 – Allowing a natural process to happen naturally. (you can use the initiation process in Lust Signals (or any approach or philosophy that works - or you can also using the Sexual Tension Report as an initiation strategy – but in general it’s a natural process. And it’s the easiest part [believe it or not] because it is so obvious when she is ready. When you really look at these Levels, you’ll see they are super easy. In many ways, it’s impossible to see it as hard…

So to sum everything up, the best strategy will ALWAYS be your philosophy (having the right Mental Motor) - not what you actually say. Then once you are able to calmly send a set of comforting signals (that you are comfortable at each LEVEL), then you can review Lust Signals, Super Sex Power, any other system that makes sense, or anything you personally have done successfully in the past to glide through the fun process... Let me know if that makes sense or if you need me to clear things up...

Take care Instructor CR James
Creator of www.SuperLustButtons.com (The SLB System)

Step 1. You walk up to a female that you are interested in
Step 2. You use the S.L.B System
Step 3. They become "noticeably and powerfully" attracted to you



Date: 1/3/2005 18:47:01 -0600 From: "JS"
To:
Subject: Kudos


Hey CR, good job on SuLuBO.pdf!!!! [The "Super Lust Buttons" eBook] Shit... I mean GREAT JOB!!!! You are one very enlightening person. I have been in a 5 year relationship that has had its ups and downs and breakups. I am currently in the rehab phase now. Your latest book has helped raise my spirits and my perceived outlook on my relationship is geared toward success. Thanks for your efforts in making a woman's complex jigsaw puzzle mind seem more like Tic-Tac-Toe. Keep up the great work, man!

[JS] - Indiana, USA

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