She Doesn’t Respect You

It is important to understand that there are certain behaviors and actions that tend to predictably create a bad (anti-seductive) perception of you...

In general, any time you show signs of jealousy, you are decreasing your sexual value...more so than you can ever imagine... In fact one of the quickest ways to gain respect and sexual value is doing things to get HER to see you as man that other women find desirable... (which is the complete opposite of showing her that you are insecure over some other guy)

Creating jealousy is the easiest ways to create “instant” sexual value, because women have to respond to it... (but if you don’t have the “other” sexual value rules in place it crumbles fast as time goes on.)

Making the woman jealous sounds like a mean thing to do. It’s actually not mean.
It’s actually funny when you hear people try to portray it as a mean thing to do. Hitting someone in the face with a sock filled with coins is a mean thing to do. But getting someone who doesn’t see you in a sexual context to see you in a sexual context when you have a desire to have them see you in a sexual context seems smart to me.

It should make sense because if you were selling a car by placing an ad in the paper for $7000 and no one SHOWED INTEREST for 30 days you would have to decrease the price (in which case $7000 wasn't the true value of the car...)

On the other hand, if you placed an ad, and the next day there were 200 people looking an examining your car (SHOWING INTEREST), it would be impossible to not get more than $7000 for it...

Because the perception of value has increased because “others” SHOWED INTEREST...
So one of the first things you want to examine is how often does she experience the idea that other women are SHOWING INTEREST in you...
The reality is you are valuable.

But if she doesn’t really get the picture, then she doesn’t perceive you as being valuable – in which case you can’t expect her to treat you as being valuable...
When a woman is pleasuring herself every night while thinking of the guy at work, she is doing this because he has sexual value. When she giggles in his face, every time he says something it is because he has sexual value…

When a woman perceives you as sexually valuable, she treats you as being valuable…
You already know this.

My point is making a woman jealous is effective (if she needs that signal)…
Sexual Value Super Tip: Always consider the context. For example, using a jealousy-inducing tactic to increase sexual value is only as effective as timing (whether she needs that signal at that time). Which means there are times when a jealousy tactic would work against you. Just like there are times when “acting jealous” can work for you.

But that really points to a higher problem if the woman doesn’t treat you like she values you...
A connection in a relationship is 'when both people VALUE each other'
And the intensity of the shared value, will determine how strong the connection is...
Keep that in mind...

Also be aware that how much she respects you will have to do with

(1) the things you do that create the perception that you are valued
(2) and not doing the things that cause her to decrease the perception of value

Also, there's not a such thing as the right thing to do, because you must:
Always consider the context.

For example if a woman you really care about screams in your face:
You loser! When will you become a real man!

…and you believe the 'right thing to do' is to be the bigger man and ignore her, then you may satisfy your own definition of the 'right thing to do' BUT if she has a belief about how a [valuable] man who respects himself should respond to a statement like that, then your [personal] beliefs (about the right thing to do) will not change how she processes the information from that experience...

And as a result a "perception" has been born (about you).
She will believe you are a loser (even though you may not be one). She will not see you as valuable. She will not treat you like you are valuable.

And as a result, you will be able to tell that she doesn’t respect you.
When you increase your Base Value (your “glowing” confidence) women have no choice but to respect you.

They are hypnotized to your every word because you can tell when a woman is starting to see you in a new way….

Take Care

Warmly
CR James

SuperHappySex.com – Learn to increase your sexual value using the SSP system
Confidence-Book.com – Learn to increase your base value (Get that “glowing” respect)