The 4 Deadly Mistakes When Trying To Seduce Your Wife

The 4 Deadly Mistakes When
Trying To Seduce Your Wife

When a guy gets turned down over and over again (during the seduction process) in his relationship with his wife (or girlfriend) he often attempts to make adjustments. You are about to learn the 4 deadly mistakes guys make when attempting to correct the problem with their “not in the mood” female partner. Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 1 Trying to learn how to be an awesome lover. I'm referring to becoming better in bed. This may shock the hell out of you, but it's the wrong approach. I'll explain. Here is what the guy thinks: The wrong approach: He thinks that if he becomes so good in bed, his wife will want to keep coming back for more. Every guy thinks this. So just relax, it's normal. Let's talk about why the thinking is flawed. Again, the guy thinks if he puts on a world class performance she will want it all the time. In reality, it doesn't matter how good you are in bed if you are a lousy sexual salesmen she will not buy into your offer. There is a such thing as poor salesmanship. And a poor salesman couldn't sell hundred dollar bills for 50 cents. Trust me, I've seen poor salesman in action. And many cases they will talk themselves out of the sale. They actually end up convincing the person not to buy. Keep this in mind: SEX is the product and SEDUCING (or the word I like to use is SEXUALLY INSPIRING) is the process of selling the product. I'll give you another example. I could be thinking about eating a bacon cheeseburger from a certain fast food restaurant. I know it tastes great because I had it before, but I'm not inspired to eat it. But when I see the commercial (which seduces me), I suddenly have a strong urge to have it right now - and as a result I will hop in my car and drive out there to get it. So it wouldn't matter at all if they kept trying to make the burger better and better and better. So that is the mistake that guys make. They try to improve the product (i.e sex or the burger), but NOT the more important part: The selling process (seduction). If you have little sexual value, then your mission should be to increase it. And you can increase it. And it's not hard to do. Just be sure to understand that what you do technically in the bedroom will not matter as much. Remember, if a woman can cum from thought alone , then that must mean the mental side of things is very important . The great news, is that your sexual salesmanship is based purely (100%) on how effective you are at pressing her emotional and psychological hot buttons. That's it. Have you ever been caressing a woman and suddenly she begins to orgasm? I remember one time being alone with a female and things were getting hot and steamy. We still had our clothes on. I began rubbing her all over while kissing her. I stopped kissing her and just focused on rubbing her – in a matter of seconds she begins to orgasm. If you get a woman really turned on, this can happen. It depends on the woman and your sexual value. My point is it wasn't the fact that she was being rubbed that resulted in her cumming. It was the fact that she was being rubbed by someone with sexual value. So when guys try to learn how to be better in bed, they are not considering the most important part – and that is increasing their sexual value. The right approach: 1 You must increase your sexual value 2 You must focus on selling (seduction) instead of improving the product (getting better at sex) Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 2 The wrong approach: Focusing on how you should approach her for sex. This happens when the guy gets rejected and through some sort of perceived logical process he concludes that the rejection was a rejection of how he approached her. Here is why the thinking is flawed. Again, the guy thinks that he has to approach her a certain way and then she will accept him. If you have little sexual value it doesn't matter how you approach her. That's like saying: What would a 900lb woman have to do to get you in the mood? If she has no sexual value to you, then the answer is nothing. Imagine if you saw her obsessing over how to approach you for sex. That is actually the perfect analogy because guys are more physically turned on, whereas women are more psychologically turned on. (so we tend to associate sexual value with looks) Wouldn't you agree that in order for you to want sex, her sexual value would have to increase.? (i.e. by losing weight) Focusing on how to initiate sex is 100% meaningless is you have no sexual value. If you have done the things to increase your sexual value, it really won't matter how you initiate sex. The right approach: You must increase your sexual value. You must understand that you do have the ability to increase your sexual value. Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 3 The wrong approach: Trying to give her pills/herbs to make her horny. Here is why the thinking is flawed. You can read a similar analogy on http://superhappysex.com (scroll down to the first Yellow Box) If you have no sexual value then it doesn't matter if the pills succeed in getting her horny. This actually could work against you in some cases. Here's the deal, if she gets horny and you have no sexual value, then she would rather masturbate than to have sex with you. And the reason why it could work against you over the long run is simple as pie. If she is always in a horny state then the guys that have sexual value in her eyes are the ones that are going to be more appealing - over time. Does that make sense? Let's say we lived in a world where a pig could talk and interact with you, but they still had the sexual value of a regular pig. By the way: This analogy was nominated for the Bizarre Analogy Award. (that's a joke) Let's say this pig gave you (secretly or non-secretly) 2 pills of HERBAL-X ROCK HARD. These pills had 90000 mg of Yohimbe and 90000 mg of Ginseng, and any herb you can think of it had 90000 mgs of it (and miraculously your heart didn't explode!)..in seconds your member was up in the air! (precisely 2.5 degrees away from your belly). Would you screw the pig if you became super aroused? The answer is no. (right?) The pig has no sexual value. So in order for you to screw the pig, it would have to increase its sexual value. It would have to do something to increase its sexual value – like putting on some fishnet stockings (or shedding that nasty gut). The right approach: 1 You must increase your sexual value. Deadly Wife Seduction Mistake # 4 The wrong approach: Asking her to explain why she is not in the mood? (or why she doesn't want sex) Here is why the thinking is very flawed. The guy thinks his wife will tell him why she isn't sexually attracted to him (anymore). And then all he has to is make the changes, and then presto! The problem is she doesn't know. She knows what she is consciously attracted to (i.e the nice guy that does nice things – i.e her husband or the man she loves) but she doesn't know what she is unconsciously attracted to. I'll say it one more time: “She does not know why she doesn't find you sexually appealing” [By the way – Any guy that has read www.superlustbuttons.com knows what I mean. When you read that, you are going to beg me to take the site down so that other guys don't use that secret system] The mechanisms that inspire horniness is foreign to her. She doesn't know what moves her on a deep down level. Here's an example. If you asked a person that just gave up on diet why he is no longer on the diet, he is not going to give you the real (deep down) answer. However, he will give you the false (surface – or what he thinks) answer and he may believe this is the truth but it's not the truth. It's false. His surface answer will be that the diet failed, or that it was a dumb diet - something like that. But the real (deep down) reason is because he may have never believed he could succeed in the first place. He may not have been serious about solving his problem. He may think that it's impossible to decrease the pounds. He may have to increase his will-power. The right approach: You must increase your sexual value . I hope you enjoyed this report. Feel free to pass it on to a friend. Always remember (for the rest of your life): ”She responds unconsciously to things that she is not aware of.” In fact, if you go to http://superhappysex.com you'll notice a list of some of the emails that I have received for my ebook Super Sex Power. No guy has ever emailed me saying something like “my wife/girlfriend/female-friend figured out exactly what I did when my sexual value increased. And she knows exactly how I am about to get her horny” 99.1% of the women out there, simply do not know. That's why when you start the process of increasing your sexual value, it can be extremely fun to see her responding totally differently. And it's even more fun when you hear her take credit for her new sexual mood. LOL! Warmly, CR James Author of Super Sex Power: Magnetism http://superhappysex.com ”Increase Your Sexual Value and Turn Women On Like Crazy” 1. Increase Your Sexual Value 2. Become Irresistibly Magnetic to Women 3. Seduce Wife Like Crazy ******************************* CR James is the author of the new seduction book Super Sex Power. The first seduction book designed to increase your sexual value fast, because it features perception-driven seduction techniques. You can get FREE seduction reports for a limited time by clicking this link: http://superhappysex.com ******************************* Date: 9/16/2005 From: "Marcos **** " <****@hotmail.com> To: cr @ superhappysex.com Hello CR have a bone to pick with you. Why the hell don't you market your book better?? just like to say that I wish I'd found your book years ago! [ *** Side Note : Super Sex Power can not be found in book stores and was not available "years ago". In fact, it is a Brand New system that was first made available in mid-2004. Also it is not widely known (yet) so you are one of the few men that will ever see this site. ***] Also like to say I firmly believe it's something every bloke in the world aught to read.. Lemme tell you a bit about myself first.. I'm a 30 year-old aussie veterinarian with a fairly analytical, but also fairly creative, mind. I've always been a happy positive bloke with alot of energy who makes people in general feel good about themselves. I have a strong family and some close mates within a wider circle of friends. I got married almost 3 years ago to my favourite person in the world, a girl called Jen who I'd met when i was 17 (she was 15). Personally I'm always looking for personal growth - you're either green and growing, or brown and dying. I've read stacks of material on attitude, leadership, ambition, communication skills, personalities, the differences between men and women etc etc. Some of it has been very good, some very good in parts, some average, and some downright misleading and dangerous. So, I think my saying that I was blown away by your book has some external qualification.. It's not like it's the first personal development book i've read Your book and the supplements I've read have not only opened up a whole stack of new doors, but they've brought to the fore the cheeky side of my personality again, which had been lying under a log for a while and had started to get a bit pale and pasty... I had what i thought was the best relationship in the world, until little cracks started to open up into big cracks about a year ago.. We'd been living in the UK for 2 years at the time, with a view to going home at the end of this year. While there are more factors in our relationship than discussed in the material of yours that I have, I'm pretty sure we could have worked through them properly had I found your book earlier.. hey ho - that's the learning curve eh? So, perhaps your book hasn't saved a relationship this time (maybe it has - but it's a big maybe from my perspective), but it has definitely changed my life. I think it's fair to say there are a few girls with smiles they can't wipe off their faces thanks to you mate. I have loved to see changes in the way people in general, but especially females , respond to me in everyday life. I'm getting to know what to expect now, but I have been amazed at the connection I've been able to develop with females, some in an incredibly short space of time (minutes in some cases - not that this is really important, but it is kinda exhilarating to meet someone and feel that connection so quickly). Whether it has led to sex or not has ceased to be that important, except for improving my game and figuring out where I may have done/said things differently to achieve a different result. I love being better equipped to figuring out what's going on in a woman's head (things even she doesn't know are going on) and watching (sometimes with frightening predictability ) the responses to what I'm doing or saying... press this button, does this; press that button, does that... mmm wonder what happens if I press em both at once... ;) If you've got any other material out since I purchased SSP, def interested - I'm sending a mate or two, and both my brothers, your way too. Dunno whether you've considered translating any of it, but my old man does freelance translating into both french and spanish! Seriously, the world needs this . but you knew this already... Anyway, if you want an endorsement for your page or whatever, all I could say is this... Is your wife/girlfriend, or more importantly, *your* life, worth more than 40 bucks, or whatever CR charges for this? If not hit the little cross in the corner of your browser :) thanks again cool Marcos S Australia Read more raving fans at http://superhappysex.com/

The 2 Scary Reasons Why The Rejections Will Continue To Get Worse:

The 2 Scary Reasons Why
The Rejections Will Continue To Get Worse:

Why Guys Keep Getting Turned Down For Sex

If you want to end the rejections, here is the good news. It’s possible. One of things you are going to hear me talk about in exhausting detail is the importance of believing it is possible.

I know guys who believe it’s impossible to change their situation. These guys have no hope, and as a result they will never get the results they want.

Remember there have been plenty of poor people who have became rich. So you must believe that it’s possible to go from one extreme to the other extreme.

That’s really all you are doing.

Once you start getting sex more frequently (where she is actually turned on), understand that all you are doing is going from one extreme to another extreme.

I get guys that ask me all the time:

“Is it really possible for my wife to start wanting and enjoying sex with me again?”

The answer is obviously YES, but for some strange reason, every guy in the universe who is in this situation thinks there is a good reason why his wife is the exception.

He’s wrong.

He’s wrong.

He’s wrong.

If she is a warm blooded human female with a vagina, then she has the ability to get turned on to the point where she will want sex.

If she is a warm blooded human female with a vagina, then she has the ability to get turned on to the point where she will want sex with you – as long as you do Certain Things that are predictably designed to affect her the right way…

If she is a warm blooded human female with a vagina, then she has the ability to get turned on to the point where she will want sex with any man – as long as he does Certain Things that are predictably designed to affect her the right way…

If you think she has a low sex drive.

Then what you are really saying is she has a low sex drive with you – because deep down inside you already know that if you locked her in the room with a Certain Guy she would be so turned on (and vaginally slippery) that she would want him inside of her forever.

Once you realize, believe and understand that you have the ability to make her crave sex with you then most of the work is done.

That’s how it works.

People can go from one extreme to another extreme as long as they believe it is possible.

You can go from skinny to fat.

You can go from fat to skinny.

You can go from poor to rich.

You can go from rich to poor.

You can go from being a guy with no sexual value to being a guy with sexual value.

You can go from being a guy with sexual value to being a guy with no sexual value.

I have talked to many, many, many guys who used to gets lots of sex in their relationship, but now they hardly ever have sex.

They used to have sexual value. Now, they don’t.

The problem is these guys tend to think that don’t have the ability to change (in the other direction).

They accept the fact that they lost sexual value, but for some reason they think it is impossible to gain sexual value.

That’s like saying a person can go from being skinny to fat – but once he becomes fat can never become skinny again.

“It is a person’s choice to go from one extreme to another extreme.”

Some guys will never learn how to turn their female partners on.

"It is the individual who creates his reality."

You have already traveled down the right path if you have made it this far. There will be guys that won't believe there is hope. I can not do anything about this.

Trust me, those guys are out there.

Here are the reasons why the rejects will get worse.

Scary Reason # 1: If she repeatedly rejects you for sex, she is going to develop a habit of rejecting you. So she will automatically reject you without even being fully aware of it!

Her unconscious mind becomes trained through repetition. Everyone's unconscious mind becomes trained through repetition - it is kind of like what happens when you are driving - where over time you began to automatically make minor steering corrections without being fully aware that you are doing it.

That means that even if you begin to do things the right way (as far as turning her on), it will feel comfortable for her to reject you. That means deep down she will not want sex with you. She will automatically reject you.

Does this make sense?

It comes down to one thing and one thing only:

You must increase your Sexual Value.

When she rejects you over and over again, she is going to perceive you as a Reject - even though she was the one that rejected you.

Believe me, I know it doesn’t seem fair.

The problem is these repeated rejections will eat away at your sexual value! - which makes the rejections more justified and more frequent.

This dynamic happens all the time. It deserves more analysis than what it is getting. How many times have you heard about a couple that had sex like crazy in the beginning, then years later the woman never wants sex.

This is a gradual process.

The rejections got worse.

Her going from hot and horny in the beginning to cold and turned off was a gradual process. Meaning it didn’t happen over night.

It's not like one week she’s hot and horny every day where she is on the bed rubbing herself – squirming on the bed with that itch between her legs giving you the sexy eyes BUT the next week she is completely repulsed by sex – and she makes up excuses or strategically structures her life to make sex completely inconvenient.

It does not work like that. The rejections got a little worse and a little worse and they will continue to get worse until the guy strategically gets out of the bad sex cycle.

If you are in the Rejection Cycle, then move into the Happy Sex Cycle right now.

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The Rejection Cycle The Happy Sex Cycle

(rare sex where she is barely into it) Consistent Mutually Turned-On Sex

Repulsion: You are repulsing her Magnetism: You are magnetizing her

STEP 1: You must believe that it is possible to move into the Happy Sex Cycle, because if you don’t you will sabotage yourself. The good news is that it is easy to believe, because all you are doing is going from one extreme to another extreme.

Note: If you think you have read enough so far and you want to get started immediately, then you can go to www.SuperHappySex.com and start reading the ebook: Super Sex Power: Magnetism “How to increase your sexual so that you can turn her on like crazy” From: JULIAN ****** <*****@hotmail.com> To: crjames100 @ gmail.com Date: Aug 1, 2005 10:31 PM Subject: RE: ****** - I made a terrible mistake Hi CR James, I have to admit the transformation in me was almost instant after reading some of your e-books, especially Super Sex Power. It was like a revelation. I wish I got all this info 20 years ago. It's funny, I went on a date with very attractive girl before I read your book and when I called her back next day she said to me that I am a very nice guy but we can be only friends. Next day, I bought your e-books and read some of them thoroughly in two days. After that I invited her on a date again and applied all this stuff I learned from your book. She became drawn to me, dropped her boyfriend and now I am her new boyfriend. It was magic. By the way, I live in US but I am originally from russia and for years had this stupid idea to attract american girls which has never worked… (Click here to read the read the rest) Click Here To Read More Glowing Reviews

Let’s Continue…

Do you want to know why this is great news?

And what I mean is situations where the guy enters a relationship – the sex is great in the beginning – but then it gets worse – and then it continues to get worse.

So do you want to know why this is great news?

Here’s a hint: The great news has nothing to do with understanding that it is possible.

The great news is that it is proof that it is possible to increase your sexual value.

Because our world (universe) is based on dualities.

There has to be a left in order for there to be a right.

There has to be an up in order for there to be a down.

There has to be a cold in order for there to be a hot.

If your sexual value can decrease with a particular female, then by law it can increase.

That is how it works.

(I know I’m repeating myself, so let’s move onto Scary Reason #2)

Otherwise you'll continue to train her unconscious mind to automatically find you repulsive. And the rejections will get worse.

That’s a harsh reality.

Scary Reason # 2: As if Reason #1 wasn't enough...

I want you to really think about what I am about to say (you won’t find anyone discussing this), because if you are not doing the things to increase your sexual value then it will be rapidly decreasing…

Think about the guy (celebrity or whatever) who can sleep with women with ease. With little effort, the women are turned on and horny.

This is a guy with a lot of sexual value, right?

If you are getting rejected from your wife, you have little sexual value, right?

Well of course.

It’s actually worse than that…

This should help:

Imagine being on a date with a 900 lb woman (or any woman who you regard as

having zero sexual value). She has no sexual value but she is a nice girl who is fun to be around.

But all of the sudden she goes into "I want sex with you" mode.

And you are thinking "oh no" I got to come up with an excuse (because to you she has no sexual value). It is not that you don't like her. It is just sexually, you would rather not have sex with her.

Do you have a libido problem?

No. You just don’t want to have sex with her.

The whole time you are thinking: I have to come up with a good excuse, because I don't want to hurt her feelings. But she keeps trying and trying - to the point where she is no longer fun. Imagine being around her even more as she sexually pursues you.

Would you get angrier as time went on?

Isn't this bad tension?

Isn't this stress?

Isn't this non-relaxing?

Wouldn't it be much more relaxing (and a sigh of relief) to be around someone else who was fun, since she is no longer fun?

Wouldn't you just naturally move towards someone that was more fun to be around?

Wouldn't the new & fun person, appear to be even more fun, the more the 900 lb woman stressed you out?

Think about that.

If you met a new woman (let’s say she’s the new girl at work) and let's say she was 600 lbs.

The only way Ms. 600 would appear thinner (or more appealing) without actually becoming thinner is if the 900 lb woman gained another 300 lb.

Did you follow that?

In other words, if the 900 pound woman gained 300 more pounds (that makes 1200 lbs) - she would have decreased her sexual value even more (for the purpose of this analogy we are equating sexual value with weight) AND IN ADDITION TO THAT she would have increased the perceived sexual value of the 600 pound woman.

So in other words, the 600lb woman became sexier (or appeared sexier) without actually doing anything.

Let’s make is super easy to understand.

The 900lb woman’s decrease in sexual value (by gaining an extra 300lbs), increased the sexual value of all women collectively!

Are you aware of the point to all of this?

If you have no sexual value with your female partner, you are advertising and making other guys more appealing as time goes on.

That’s the harsh reality.

Oh it gets worse…

So as your sexual value decreases - the rejections will continue to get worse – and the sexual value of every guy in the galaxy will continue to increase (or at least that’s how it will feel to her)…

If you enjoyed this report and you found it useful do not hesitate to email it or forward it to a friend that might also benefit from the material.

One other thing, this report is really like the “warm up” or the “Part 1” of another report where I reveal a frightening real life case study that gives you proof why married women are easier to seduce.

You’ll want to go to www.superhappysex.com and scroll down until you are about 60 – 70% to the bottom…

Look for the book image of Super Bonus #8 - How To Seduce Married Women. (that is Part 2 to this report, because I reveal some things that I can’t really give away for free.

Only because it would not be fair to the thousands of guys out there that secretly own Super Sex Power: Magnetism…

Hint: Inside of that report – there is a “bizarre experiment” that any guy can test on any female (wife or female friend) that almost proves the married women are easier to seduce.

Hopefully you have learned 20% of the reason why there are easier to seduce which is the guy’s continued down-spiral in sexual value makes all guys appear more sexually desirable.

If you interested in the other 80%, then you’ll want to own a copy of Super Sex Power.

Here’s a hint of what one guys says about Super Bonus #8 - How To Seduce Married Women (if you are short on time, just read the part in red)

From: XXXXXX@XXX.edu

To: crjames100@gmail.com

Date: Nov 1, 2005 8:32 PM

Subject: CR, Where is XXXXXXXX

CR,

Reading over most of your reports, I am understanding better a huge problem in my marriage. You see, for some odd reason...

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I have gotten the advice that I should move on so that she can [xxxxxxx], thereby giving her the feelings she DESPERATELY craves (your Wives are Easier to Seduce report made me cringe), and I have gotten advice saying that if I focus on being

loving, feelings will appear between us, because love is a commitment and a choice, not a feeling. Soooo....

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My apologies, since this IS a long email, but this has been a huge problem in our relationship for five years and we are both nearing the end of our rope.

[paragraph cut out]

Your information is truly king. I wont be surprised if centuries or even decades from now your information is required reading for those in the Marriage/Counseling/Behavioral Psychology fields.

Seriously.

Your graciously,

Trini

Again I wanted to include the reaction without revealing anything in particular out of fairness. If you go to http://superhappysex.com/readers-comments you can read actual case studies of what guys did to increase their sexual value.

Warmly

CR James

Author of Super Sex Power: Magnetism
superhappysex.com

“Increase your sexual value today!”

PS – If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to email me

crjames100@gmail.com

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EMOTIONAL POWER THRUSTING

Super Sex Power:
EMOTIONAL POWER THRUSTING

This can also double as a secret formula to Amazing Sex. You’ll see
what I mean.

If you haven’t read The HATE/LOVE Swing (one of the Super
Bonuses), I suggest you read it first (again) because that report is the
introduction to this concept.
Before I tell you the power of this technique, I will give you the
Ultimate Analogy:
The Ultimate Analogy: What would happen if you just slowly slid
your penis into her vagina and held it there???

By the way, when you are done reading this you will instantly see the
power. You’ll be one of the few guys on earth that can benefit from
this technique and you will see it working in every phase.
The results are the only thing that matters.

Again: What would happen if you just slowly slid your penis into her
vagina and held it there???

And by that, I mean what is happening to her from a pleasure
standpoint?
Think about it.

She will feel pleasure as it enters and when you are no longer
moving (thrusting) the pleasure will slowly dissipate (go away). Right?
The same goes for you.

OK – Different question:

What would happen if you slowly pulled it out and just kept the “head”
in??

The same thing! She will feel pleasure from the friction as you pull
out and then as you hold it in one spot, the pleasure (for you and her)
will slowly go away…
Again, this is an analogy for this technique: Emotional Power
Thrusting (The Keyword being “Emotional” – because in order to
sexually inspire a female, you must be able to affect her emotionally.)
Do you agree?

And if you don’t agree, that’s fine. Just know that you are wrong!

So I’ll repeat:
In order to “sexually inspire” a female, you must be able to affect her
emotionally.
If you have no impact on her emotions, it will be near impossible to
seduce (sexually inspire) her – which means you will compromise the
amount of sex you have with her.
So this is just an analogy, if you are interested in actually learning
about sexual techniques then go to:

http://superhappysex.com/sexual-performance.html (I highly
recommend you read this. If you are interested in learning how to
drive her wild in bed from your sexual performance, then read this
some time today. Every man should know this information. I can’t
stress it enough. It took me a lot of hours researching, reading and
reviewing different sexual technique books to find a good trustworthy
sex book that was worth my recommendation.)

With that said, this “thrusting talk” has to do with her emotions. We
are going to discuss turning her on – not sexual performance.
But in case you weren’t aware, her perception of your actual
performance goes up dramatically when she is extremely turned on.

Sexual performance is very important.
BUT! Jumping back to it again: She has to be turned on in order for
your performance to matter. You have to affect her mind. She has to
be into you.
Most guys’ thinking is severely flawed. I sometimes feel like banging
my head up against the wall.
If you have no sexual value, she will not cum even if you put on an
Olympic 5-Star World Class sexual performance…
When she is turned on like crazy, she becomes an animal! Her
tolerance for pain goes up, her eyes slant and she’ll have a sweet
smell to her…
On the other end, it doesn’t matter how rough she likes it, she has to
be into YOU.

Do you think women enjoy being rapped?
Do you think she is into the guy that rapes her and forces her to have
sex?
Do you think it would matter at all what he did on a performance
level?
Nope!
But what if he was the Tiger Woods of stroking?
Nope. It wouldn’t matter!
She has to be into the GUY.
She has to be “emotionally” into YOU.
You have to have (relative) Sexual Value.

With that said, this thrusting talk has to do with her emotions (getting
her into you). We are going to discuss turning her on – and the
associated intensity (i.e Horny Level)
Think about the sexual thrusting analogy that you read earlier. And
the affects it has on her pleasure. Remember she feels the pleasure
from going in and going out. The movements.
Now…

If the two of you were interacting while she was in a happy mood and
you did something that made her sad (by accident of course – this
happens all the time) she will feel the intensity of the emotional
extreme.
In simple terms, the perception of sadness is going to be magnified
due to its relationship with her existing state of mind.
In super simple terms: She is going to feel more sad as a result of
your action because she was happy at first.
This often goes unnoticed. But if you looked at what happens on the
reverse end, it becomes crystal clear.

For example, what is going to make her happier?
[A] Buying her roses while she is happy.
[B] Buying her roses while she is sad or upset.
The correct answer is [B].
Why?
Because you have to remember, the intensity of pleasure comes from
the transition (thrusting) more so than the stand-still state of mind.
The transition from happy to sad is where the energy is.

Think about our sex analogy from earlier. The pleasure is in the
movements.
I don’t know about you, but I have never been able to cum from just
holding it in there (without moving and thrusting).
The pleasure comes from the “series” of movements - as you thrust in
and out of her.

The orgasm is a result of physical thrusting and emotional thrusting.
THEREFORE, you must have Sexual Value.
If you are a big pussy, then you will not benefit as much. (or at all)
On the Brightside, this could give you a little more Sexual Value.
When it is all said and done, it is fun to do things like this,
because you will always walk away with information.
You are merely researching. Researching is fun (most of the time).
Sometimes it can suck.
I was flipping through the television channels the other day –
speaking of research. And out of nowhere I was stopped dead in my
tracks when I saw this guy wide-eyed kissing up to this woman that
he barely knew.
And it was for real.

Then another guy was doing all of the “wrong things”.
Then another guy was doing all of the “wrong things”!
The show is called The Bachelorette.
This Orgy of Male Self-Emasculation thinly disguised as a dating
reality show had me laser-eyed glued for about 15 solid minutes until
I couldn’t take it anymore!!!

My fiancé asked me what I was doing watching such garbage and I
said softly “research”. Just watching the show I started to feel like a
little bitch!
If you watch that show you’ll see what I mean. For research purposes
I recommend that you (at least until you can’t take it anymore) watch
these guys in “action”.

This is a lesson on what not to do. Look at how she facially responds
to them. You’ll see what I mean.
I don’t know how this group of guys compare to past groups, but this
group is a collection of “Class A” Pussies!
I was mind-blown…
Put it this way, the pussy stench was so strongly emanating from my
television set, I had 32 male cats trying to claw their way into my
house! (at last count)

So I began to watch this display of testicular sacrifice until the urge to
rip off my own balls began to enter my mind too many times!
Talk about a disaster.

And on the other hand it is statistical masterpiece. Talk about the
odds. You are more likely to hit the lotto 3 times in a row before you
are able to successfully pack that many pussies in one room.
Let’s move on…
Why?
Because I am fresh out of “these guys are pussies” comments, but
more importantly we need to discuss emotional thrusting.
Let’s fast forward for a second and return back to the original
position…

What would happen if you knew actually what sequence made her
cum and then modeled that with her emotions???
If that doesn’t make sense, don’t worry. It will be cleared up in the
near future.

Back to normal speed…(and really that’s what this is all about)
Think about this.
When ever you brighten up a woman’s day or bring her out of some
type of mental stress/torment, it will always feel great to her…
And it should feel good to you to do that for her.
It is important that you realize that the emotional transition is where
the power is. When it is all said and done, you want her to be happy.
She is 100 times more likely to desire sex if she is happy…

It comes down to this (and only this):
Your sex life (dating and in relationships) will depend
tremendously on:

1. How she perceives you.
2. How she perceives sex.
3. What you do to control/help her perceptions of you.
4. What you do to control/help her perceptions of sex.
Do you see the power?
[Actually it was 43 cats!]
Once you are able to control the emotional changes positively in her it
takes on the same energy of “make up sex”.
And many people will argue that make up sex is the most
steamy type of sex in the galaxy.

The goal is to achieve intensity. In other words, you want to make
her horny as hell.

And nothing is wrong with that. I must also note that you will not want
to use any of this for evil.

The goal is not to trick her into sex. You do not want her to feel used
and cheap afterwards. You want her to be legitimately turned on. You
want her to feel a “real” attraction.
For your purpose, getting her into the bedroom is one thing.
Getting her in the bedroom turned on like crazy is another thing. In
order for that to happen, you must affect her emotionally.
Emotional Thrusting.

If you read the HATE/LOVE Swing (from superhappysex.com), that is
packed with information that should get you started.
The details will be explained later (so be on the look out), but if you
get (understand) the concept fully in HATE/LOVE Swing, then you will
have a head start, because all you are going to do is do multiple
cycles instead of one cycle.

And you are going to do multiple types of extremes instead of one
type of extreme.

Chances are (just from reading that) you will need the follow up report
that I will be sending out shortly.

This is important because those that kind of “get it” can explain how
they used it (by emailing me) and I think it will help other guys out –
since there is so many ways this can be done.
Also the second technique in the same report (HATE/LOVE) was
hard to believe by some. You’ll be happy to know that it is true and it
possible and it actually works off of the same philosophy.

Warmly,
CR James

P.S. – Remember to be on the look out for the follow up report, but
then again this report had so many strong hints that you can probably
just ignore the report when it comes.

"INPUT"

SSP: INPUT

Date: February 9, 2005
Setting: UK & USA
Subject: Input
Date: 2/09/2005 21:48:46 +0000
From: "Sue xxxx"
To: cr@superhappysex.com


Hi CR!

I told you I would get back! he 'controls me!' he tells me
he wants 'input' but when I do, he ignores it! and makes my
'decisions' yet he tells me to give 'input' but it's
'rejected' I find it very 'confusing!' it's like I give
input! but he 'rejects' it, then tells me I am 'indecisive'
and I go with him! I was so good to him! I even looked
after his kids!

I looked after him and he pushed me 'further' even said he
had set me 'tasks' things that were 'alien' to me! He loves
my looks, he loves my body and 'enthusiasm' but he 'knows'
he is clever! He said we are not '.mates,. because I am his
'lover' I cannot be a MATE! only his 'lover, soulmate! not
a 'friend' I feel very down about this!

I am totally confused! I want himto love me, where is the
'problem, xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Sue 'the great' xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx I
value your advice! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx



Ok Sue,
It is simple as pie to see exactly what is going on here. You have to
make sure you listen and understand - instead of being delusional.
Out of all the delusional people out there, how many do you think they
superhappysex.com CR James
are delusional?

The answer is zero.

The answer will always be zero.

Do you know how people become delusional?

There's a little Delusional Fairy that's sprinkles delusional dust on
people's faces while they are sleeping and when they wake up they are
delusional.

Actually, that is NOT how it happens...
Here is how it really happens - it is simple as pie - they believe what
they want to believe. They process information based on HOW THEY WANT IT
TO BE...

They ignore what is obvious SO MUCH (on a conscious level) - that over
time they begin to do it unconsciously.
Kind of like when you unconsciously make millions of minor steering corrections
when you are driving...

You (in a way) drive without thinking...
Through repetition, your brain will perform functions automatically...
Sometimes it is good to be delusional. In other words, imagine living
your whole life as a fairy tale where what you want to believe is what
you believe despite the hard core FACTS...

But as you know facts are hard to determine in some cases. Sometimes it
is a bitch to find the truth. Sometimes the truth hurts. Sometimes
reality isn't fair...

Here's what I want you to do: go to the store and buy a black magic
marker. Then go back home and write this sentence on your living room
wall (very big): "It doesn't make any logical sense for a man to not
want to be with the woman he loves."
Stare at what you just wrote for hours and see if it makes any sense. If
it doesn't, write it again. In fact, keep writing it until it makes sense.
I've been called eccentric, weird, brilliant, etc... I've been told I
don't think like the average person. And love to hear it each time...

In fact I get mildly horny when if I hear it enough (that's a secret)
But out of all the abnormal things I have done. I have never in my human
existence told a woman that I L-O-V-E that she is not allowed to be my
friend.

In fact! Even if my feelings weren't on the level of love - and I just
cared about the person - I would never say that...
That is not strange behavior... That is natural human behavior...
With that said - I do not possess the ability to telepathically detect
whether a person is experiencing love...

The cool thing is I do possess the ability to make a choice. And making
choices is one of those things I like to do. In fact - if I ever had the
ability (even if it were for one day) to telepathically detect if a
woman (who I was fucking) really loved me and I found out that she
actually loved me BUT she didn't show it OR I didn't feel it then I
would make a CHOICE . [assuming that it was important for me to experience
love in this sexual relationship]

Again, I love to make choices - In fact I get extremely horny every time I have to
make one of those (that you can share)...

So if a woman didn't show me love OR/AND I didn't feel it I would make a
"choice" to NOT be with her. That would be my choice (gaaaasspppp!!!!)
Yeap!!!, even though I KNEW 100% FOR A DEFINITE CONCLUSIVE HARDCORE
TESTICLE-PULSATING FACT that she loved me...

Do you know why?

Because I enjoy feeling loved. I also enjoy loving. The world needs more
compassion. And since I like to make choices, I would never in 50
trillion years be with someone who didn't make me FEEL loved... [assuming that
it was important for me to experience love in this sexual relationship]
I would rather be with a woman that didn't love me that made me feel
loved over a woman who did love me that didn't make me feel loved...
In other words, I would seduce the Delusional Fairy...

The real question is what do you get out of being with a man that
doesn't love you (let's pretend I am making an assumption)?

Think about that for a second...

Write it down on a piece of paper and tell me.
Now ball up the paper, because here is the real answer.
But before I tell you it, think about this...

There is a guy with no home, no car, no money. He is homeless. He is
broke. He is poor.

How would he feel if he met a woman that was rich, that invited him into
her world? Do you think he would be happy that he is now living with a
rich woman?

Do you think she is satisfying a MAJOR need of his?
What if she treated him like shit? (shockingly, he may put up with it)
Now the question becomes: What is best for him? By the way, if you are
not doing things that are BEST for you that is equivalent to banging
your head up against a wall all day long every single day...

Would it be BETTER for him to not put up with the bullshit and figure
out a way to make money?

or

Would it be BETTER for him to put up with the bullshit, hope and pray
that she doesn't leave him?

You don't have to answer Sue. Let’s go back to the original question:
The real question is what do you get out being with a man that doesn't
love you?

Here is the deal - whenever a woman seeks out a man that is extremely
dominant (that would be you) she is really masking the fact that she has
insecurity problems...

By the way, a person should never start looking for a relationship if
they know they have insecurity issues because they will sabotage the
relationship... they become an emotional drain...and a bunch of other
stuff...

Women who seek out guys that are extremely dominant may like to pretend
that they have it all figured out (like you do) but deep down inside
there is a lot of pain...
They are really saying "I want a good excuse to act overly submissive. I
want a good excuse to be talked to like I'm a piece of shit." In fact,
it will begin to feel comfortable for them...

So that is my take on things. Hopefully that helped...


Thank you CR, I understand what you say,. I am being
'delusional' I am living in 'fairytale' land. I have been
doing this all my life! I have a life no one would envy!
but I need it this way,. I know I am not 'loved' by this
guy,. he didn't even call to make sure I got home safe
after driving 400 miles at 3:30 am in thick fog!

I do have a man that I know 'loves' me like I have never
been loved in my life! he worries over me,. he wanted to
know I got home safe,. he wants to 'spoil' me and treat me
like a 'lady' he takes me out to lovely places and buys me
very 'special' expensive presents,. But I don't love him! I
feel like a 'user' and I am not, it's just hard for me to
hurt people’s feelings,. he even wanted to buy me a new
BMW! but I had the decency to say no!. I try not to think
of my life, that’s probably me being 'delusional' I have
made a Big decision though, I am getting away from my home
with 'Hubby' I am getting an apartment,. this has made
“Marty” slightly 'insecure' now,. I can tell, because he
will not know what I am 'up to'. but I had to do this to
'test' if he loves me,. I was hoping he would tell me to
move to him,. but as he said 'we can't rush' .
What you have said has made me think! you are right! if he
loved me why can't I be with him! why can't I be a
'friend'? I hoped we would be 'best friends' aren't
'soulmates' friends? .
I really do appreciate your 'insight' because my head is in
the 'clouds' I do find the 'verbal abuse' comfortable,
which is so 'strange' he is so good at doing it too!
everyone tells me I am slim,. but he said I could do with
losing some weight! I straightened my hair and it did look
'good' he didn't like it! he says my driving makes him
'seasick'. all these digs don't hurt me! I also get this
'shit' from my boss at work too! and before that my 'hubby'

too! maybe people have made me 'submissive' or maybe they
saw that in me! is it like the 'chicken and the egg'? .
Thank you CR you are so cool! and so knowledgeable! when I
told “Marty” the things I loved about him I told him I
liked his 'intelligence' he told me he like my 'looks' it
was so 'subtle' how he wanted me to know I am 'thick' and
'stupid' . why am I doing this to myself? I know it's wrong
and I will get very 'hurt',. I wish I could open my 'eyes'
and see things how they really are! not like 'fairy
tale',. but I don't know how to do it! maybe I will write
that on my wall and stare at it all day, until it finally
sinks in to me! You are 'Splendiferous' I am pleased
and happy to know you,.
Have a great day CR!

There is so much value in this report, I do not even know where to begin! And I’m
talking about stuff that would benefit males and females. I see THREE major
things that are blaring in my eyes like a close-range Police Flashlight! Two of
them I’ll explain in a future report (when I get the time) and the other one is too
powerful to even hint at!
And taking a step back there is nothing wrong with being in Control. In fact you
have to be in control.
Do you know the relationship between control and input?

Think about it.

Here is a hint: Good sex will drive a woman wild!
Did you know that?
That is the only thing you need to know. And I’ll bet you your pile of stones for my
wooden axe that her (Sue from the email) husband was NOT giving her mind
blowing sex.

Trust me, there are some other things that he is not doing and if you read
Married Women Are Easier To Seduce (go to superhappysex.com and scroll
down midway until you see the image of the book – it is a limited time bonus
ebook) then you know what I mean. I strongly suggest you read that eBook twice!

Getting back to control I would recommend that you read another report by going
to www.superhappysex.com/easily-offended.pdf
The title is called easily-offended.pdf because if you are easily offended you
probably should not read it. It’s actually not that bad, but some people get all
buzzed out when something catches them off guard.

Even though I have little respect for people who get offended easily and I
normally lose sleep trying to figure out a way to get them to stop reading what I
write, I will at least give them a chance to bail out now!
And after they bail out, I’m going to tell you how people who get offended easily
are the ones who are not sexually inspiring females.

Those overly judgmental guys that get all uptight over every little thing and they
think they know it all and they think they got it all figured out are the ones that are
not sexually inspiring females.
Women hate those guys!

There is not enough bytes in cyberspace for one of these clowns to write me an
email long enough to convince me that he is getting some ass on a regular basis.
I can spot this type of husband any day of the week!
When you read “easily-offended.pdf” I want you to get out your abacus and count
how many times Sue mentions her HUSBAND.
Hint: Her husband’s name is NOT “Marty”.

Click here:
www.superhappysex.com/easily-offended.pdf

Love Peace and Happiness,
CR James
Author of Super Sex Power
superhappysex.com

Specializing in advanced undetectable seduction techniques

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